accepting compliments
Anda menempah baju sebulan sebelum pergi dinner yang dianjurkan oleh opis anda;
Mr A: Oh.. u look nice and lovely in that dress,is it new?
Anda: What ? Tak ada lah, Baju lama,hari raya lepas nya baju, beli masa sale kat Parkson.
Anda telah memasak makanan utk meraikan kawan anda;
Mr B: O Yoo! This food is so sedap,so delicious,sehingga menjilat jari,U are great and really good cook.
Anda: ala...I am not really.I just campak-campak je bahan-bahan nya.
Anda pergi ke Salon utk membuat facial dan mewarnakan rambut anda utk pergi majlis Dinner.
Mr C: Ala hai....cantiknya,macam org dara,memang org tak tahu dia dah ada anak 4 org.
Anda:EH eh awak ni.. Kita dah tua dah..tak cantik..
Kenapa ye ? Why do we find it is so hard to accept compliment gracefully?
How do you feel when someone openly admires you?
Adakah anda suka,gembira, menyampah dan terasa di awang-awangan.
So we look at this ,what if you compliment someone and they dont accept it,would you bother to do it again?Sure anda tak nak dah kan,rasa serik dan anda akan menyampah melihatnya?
Whenever someone congratulate u,encourages and supports u,they are showing u respect and admiration.Dia bangga dapat join dan kelihatan bersama anda.
If you just ignore or 'throw away' their compliments ,you are only showing your LACK OF SELF ESTEEM,MENUNJUKKAN KELEMAH ANDA DAN RASA INFERIORITY COMPLEX.
Belajarlah utk menerima compliment,learn to accept it.Next time when someone say something nice about you just say' THANK YOU,MAK ACEH,MAKSIH DAN KAM SIA'.
"accept a compliment and anda akan rasa wonderful dan begitu juga the person giving it"
Mr A: Oh.. u look nice and lovely in that dress,is it new?
Anda: What ? Tak ada lah, Baju lama,hari raya lepas nya baju, beli masa sale kat Parkson.
Anda telah memasak makanan utk meraikan kawan anda;
Mr B: O Yoo! This food is so sedap,so delicious,sehingga menjilat jari,U are great and really good cook.
Anda: ala...I am not really.I just campak-campak je bahan-bahan nya.
Anda pergi ke Salon utk membuat facial dan mewarnakan rambut anda utk pergi majlis Dinner.
Mr C: Ala hai....cantiknya,macam org dara,memang org tak tahu dia dah ada anak 4 org.
Anda:EH eh awak ni.. Kita dah tua dah..tak cantik..
Kenapa ye ? Why do we find it is so hard to accept compliment gracefully?
How do you feel when someone openly admires you?
Adakah anda suka,gembira, menyampah dan terasa di awang-awangan.
So we look at this ,what if you compliment someone and they dont accept it,would you bother to do it again?Sure anda tak nak dah kan,rasa serik dan anda akan menyampah melihatnya?
Whenever someone congratulate u,encourages and supports u,they are showing u respect and admiration.Dia bangga dapat join dan kelihatan bersama anda.
If you just ignore or 'throw away' their compliments ,you are only showing your LACK OF SELF ESTEEM,MENUNJUKKAN KELEMAH ANDA DAN RASA INFERIORITY COMPLEX.
Belajarlah utk menerima compliment,learn to accept it.Next time when someone say something nice about you just say' THANK YOU,MAK ACEH,MAKSIH DAN KAM SIA'.
"accept a compliment and anda akan rasa wonderful dan begitu juga the person giving it"
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