Monday, June 20, 2011


Seorang yg sangat istimewa…

Jadikan hari ini satu keutamaan utk melakukan sesuatu yg istimewa kpd seorg yg istimewa, seorg yg selalu kita “take for granted”…seorg yg deserves perhatian dan sokongan sepenuh nya…diri anda sendiri

Being good atau pampering atau memanjakan diri sendiri bukanlah sifat pentingkan diri sendiri atau selfish.
Ianya bukan bermakna kita tidak mempedulikan org lain…rather ,it make you able to offer more value to the other people in your world bila kita take good care diri kita sendiri…

Putting yourself down is of no benefit to anyone…

My sahabat yg budiman…BE POSITIVE WITH YOURSELF….

When was last time you did something nice for yourself?


Friday, June 17, 2011

Batu kecil...


Seorang pekerja pada projek bangunan memanjat ke atas tembok yang sangat tinggi. Pada suatu saat ia harus menyampaikan pesan penting kepadakawan kerjanya yang ada di bawahnya.

Pekerja itu berteriak-teriak,tetapi temannya tidak mendengarnya kerana suara bising dari mesin-mesin dan orang-orang yang bekerja, sehingga usahanya sia-sia saja.

Oleh kerana itu untuk menarik perhatian orang yang ada di bawahnya, ia mencuba melemparkan duit syiling di depan kawannya. kawannya berhenti bekerja, mengambil duit syiling itu lalu bekerja kembali.

Pekerja itu mencuba lagi, tetapi usahanya yang kedua pun memperoleh hasil yang sama.

Tiba-tiba ia mendapat idea. Ia mengambil batu kecil lalu melemparkannya ke arah orang itu. Batu itu tepat mengenai kepala temannya, dan karena merasa sakit, kawannya mendongak ke atas?

Sekarang pekerja itu dapat menjatuhkan catatan yang berisi pesanannya.

Cerita di atas hanya contoh perumpamaan untuk kita yang selalu lupa...

Tuhan kadang-kadang menggunakan cubaan-cubaan ringan untuk membuat kita menengadah kepadaNya. Seringkali Tuhan melimpahi kita dengan rahmat, tetapi itu tidak cukup untuk membuat kita menengadah kepadaNya.

Mungkin, agar kita selalu mengingat kepadaNya, Tuhan sering menjatuhkan "batu kecil" kepada kita.

Tuesday, June 07, 2011

the only things we ever keep...are the things we give..

Whatever you give away today, or think or say or do, will multiply about tenfold, and then return to you.

Sahabatku....It may not come immediately nor from the obvious source, but the law applies unfailingly through some invisible force.

Whatever you feel about another, be it love or hate or passion, will surely bounce right back at you in some clear or secret fashion.

Sahabatku....If you speak about someone a word of praise or two, soon tens of other people will speak kind words to you.

Our thoughts are products of the soul, not secrets of the brain, kind ones bring us happiness, petty ones untold pain. Giving works as surely as reflections in a mirror, if hate you send, hate you'll get back, but loving brings love nearer.

Remember as you start this day and duty crowds your mind, that kindness comes so quickly back to those who first are kind. Let that thought and this one direct you through each day...

The only things we ever keep, are the things we give away.

Friday, June 03, 2011

Embracing imperfection..

Embracing Imperfection
"When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad.
I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burned toast.'
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.

What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - are the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship! "