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Selamat Ari Gawai

To all my Dayak's friends...Selamat Ari Gawai...Gayu Guru..Gerai Nyamai...lantang senang...uuuuuhhhhaaa.

Enti Ngirup..anang Drive...


The way to be respected is to be respectful.

The way to be heard is to listen

What do you wish to experience? Give it to others, and you will surely find it appearing and growing stronger in your own life.

To make a positive impression, find the qualities that are positive and valuable about every person you meet.

Achievements built on kindness, respect, understanding and love will continue to grow in value and influence.

Give, and as you do you'll be able to give more and more.

dear wife...

Terima ini dari kawan..untuk bacaan bersama..

Memang banyak kebenarannya terkandung dalam surat tersebut..boleh di jadikan pengajaran kpd wanita yg bergelar isteri..


Dear Wife,

Please forgive me for addressing you as such, for that is what I feel of you now.

You cannot read what is on my mind, I will not allow you to. You will only learn of the contents up here through me. I will tell you what is bothering me if I want to talk about it. I will try to solve my problems MY way, if ever I reached to a dead end, perhaps I will talk to you. I expect you to just listen and digest. You may advice me when I ask you to. Sometimes I do not trust your womanly intuition. What is that anyway?

Now, please do not start about that other woman. She means nothing to me. Well, she WILL be something if you keep on pestering me about her! Do not make me regret for putting my cards on the table. I am trying my best to be true h…


As we move along the path in life, in search of many things, we often make the mistake of seeking short term pleasure at the cost of long term joy. Many people confuse the two.

Imagine kalau kita pergi makan di restoren yang best..dessert yang sedap…setiap malam sebulan..enjoykan..this is pleasure…
…….But look at yourself in the mirror after that month and I don't think you will be so joyous.

Imagine kalau kita mengamalkan sex rambang…kita akan rasa seronok ..enjoy…pleasure but short term…but kalau kena Sexual Transmitted Diseases…and Hiv….
Kan orang selalu cakap..”seronoknya beberapa saat je..tapi merananya lama”….

Imagine juga kalau kita ada affair,mempunyai kekasih gelap,…pleasure nya sekejap..bila berjumpa…ber rindu-rinduan…pleasurenya bila bertelipon dan bersms….pleesurenya bila bersembunyi utk memadu kasih…..tapi long term nya…ada hati yang terluka…anak-anak terabai….suami/isteri terabai…finance trganggu…produktivit kerja juga akan trganggu….

Pleasure generally requires no effor…

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There have been times when the kindness of another person has changed your life for the better. And it's easy to see that kindness has the power to reach far beyond itself.

In the most difficult of moments, kindness heals and reassures.

Kindness gives comfort, and hope where there was none before.

Kindness can inspire confidence

When you seek to make a difference, kindness is a great place to start.

Just the simple desire to give it is all you really must have.

So give kindness, freely and without hesitation

Whether you get it back does not really even matter, for its true value is in the giving.

Live with kindness, and you'll always see life's very best possibilities. For in kindness, is the heart of who you truly are.