Monday, November 27, 2006

PRICELESS

..................................................patung yang menyambut anda di Damai..........................................

Seorang penceramah started off his seminar by

holding up a rm50.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked,

"Ada sesiapa disini yang inginkan duit rm50 ini?"

Hands started going up dan sambil menjerit "saya..saya".

He said, "I am going to give this rm50 to one of you

but first, let me do this.

He proceeded to crumple up the rm50
He then asked, "Who ,siapa yang masih inginkan duit ini?"

Still the hands were up in the air.

Well, he replied, "What if I do this?"

And he dropped it on the ground

and started to grind it,memijak-mijak duit itu diatas lantai dgn kasutnya...
He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.

"Now, who still wants it?"

Still dan masih ramai lagi yang inginkan duit itu.......

My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.

No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it

because it did not decrease in value.

It was still worth rm50.

Many times in our lives,

we are dropped, crumpled,dikecewakan,susah hati,dan banyak perkara yang tak menepati keinginan kita dan tak menepati citarasa kita......

by the decisions we make and

the circumstances that come our way.

We feel as though we are worthless.

But no matter what has happened or

what will happen, you will never lose your value.

Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased,
you are still priceless dan sangat tinggi nilai diri kita

The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know,

but by WHO WE ARE and WHOSE WE ARE.


My friends...brothers and sisters.....
You are special - Don't EVER forget it, sit down and look and wait for the "hikmah" disebaliknya."

Friday, November 17, 2006

Rasa bangga....




Hari ini Hari Quality Sk Datok Traoh Kota Samarahan.......

Maizatul menerima beberapa hadiah kecemerlangan........tempat pertama... dan beberapa hadiah terbaik matapelajaran....

Abah rasa bangga kerana maizatul telah berjaya melepasi ujian yang pertama UPSR dengan mendapat 5A dan KAFA 5A........semuga maizatul akan terus cemerlang dalam pepereksaan yang akan datang.....

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

...Bend...but dont break

When I think about the bamboo tree's ability to bounce back or return to it's original position, the word resilience comes to mind.

When used in reference to a person this word means the ability to readily recover from ........shock

.......kesedihan

......depression

.......kekecewaan

......or any other situation that stretches the limits of a person's emotions.

Have you ever felt like you are about to snap...nak meletop...(my wife used to say"bom atom nak meletup")?

Have you ever felt like you are at your breaking point?

During the experience you probably felt a mix of emotions .

You felt emotionally drained,

mentally exhausted and

you most likely endured unpleasant physical symptoms such as..sakit kepala...gastric pain...palpitation..tremors..mata berpinar-pinar etc.

Life is a mixture of good times and bad times, happy moments and unhappy moments.

The next time you are experiencing one of those bad times or unhappy moments that take you close to your breaking point, bend but don't break..........

A measure of hope..dan kepercayaan sepenuhnya kepada qadar dan qadak dan mengharapkan adanya "hikmah" disebalik setiap dugaan yang kita terima..... will take you through the unpleasant ordeal.

With hope for a better tomorrow or a better situation, things may not be as bad as they seem to be. .......The unpleasant ordeal may be easier to deal with if the end result is worth having.

Like the bamboo tree, bend, but don't break.

Monday, November 13, 2006

..kesan jangka panjang...


Apakah kesan jangkamasa panjang sesuatu "affair" itu (Long-term effects of an affair)

Aabila sudah berlaku sesuatu "affair " itu........"Tepuk dada tanya selera".....atau" tepuk dada tanya iman"................Only you can decide what to do in the aftermath of an affair,.........

...........and whatever you decide will not be easy. Bukan senang brader.....banyak yang harus diambil kira....hati orang yg kita lukai....hati anak-anak.....

Many affairs cause havoc in a relationship that is already dogged with problems.

Affairs do sometimes provoke far-reaching changes that eventually strengthen and enhance the relationship. ..............The cost can be very high, however.

An affair can also have destructive effects on your family. .

Children,.......... in-laws,........... friends,...................... may all find themselves caught up in events, and perhaps having to take sides. .

Permanent barriers can be created.

Walaubagaimana pun...selalunya.....an 'affair' does not always (selalunya lah) mean the end of your relationship atau hubungan rumahtangga anda.... With hard work, ........commitment ......and patience, ...................it may be possible to come through this crisis changed,..................... but also stronger dan hubungan rumahtangga anda lebih kukuh dan kuat..........

The key message is to understand why the affair happened,......... rather than running away from the reasons.

It is crucial dan amat penting sekali to gather some insights into what went wrong.

Saturday, November 11, 2006

...MENDING A RELATIONSHIP........


Apabila berlakunya hubungan terlarang....atau 'affair' atau "skandal" dan anda "terkantoi".....dan anda menyesalinya dan .......yang pentingnya anda ingin berubah.......so what should you do ?


What helps to mend a relationship?Bagaimana nak membaiki hati yang telah kita lukai?...(dari pengelaman silam kawan-kawan)

· The unfaithful partner must end the affair, once and for all.Look back...reevaluate...is it "love" or just "lust"......."cinta atau Nafsu"........atau sengaja nak" test market"

Dari pengelaman kawan-kawan...ianya bermula dgn "saje-saje"..."kawan je"....."penasihat peribadi"......."kasihan".......

· Talk it through.Talk openly to your partner.... This process may take days,........ weeks, or longer.

Don't talk on for hours and hours -Jangan bercakap pada satu masa(one sitting aje)...... you'll just go round in circles.

Set a time limit, and don't talk when you're tired......atau tengah marah.....

· Agree to discuss future problems, too, instead of just hoping they'll go away.Jangan dipendam ape yang kita tak senangi mengenai partner kita.........

· Make a commitment to a new future together. Both partners must do this, and mean it.

· Find more time for each other,luangkan masa bersama...binakan KENANGAN TERINDAH BERSAMA (macam lagu samson), take more interest in each others' lives and feelings.

· Try to sort out sexual problems.Dont underestimate sexual problems.......Orang lelaki kalau tak kenyang di rumah....dia akan makan di luar......lebih-lebih lagi kalau ada yang offer nak belanja.......Begitu juga orang perempuan....dia orang pun suka makan kat luar.......banyak orang lelaki diluar sana yang sangat-sangat suka dan secara sukarela nak offer.........

· Consider couple counselling.Get seseorang yang anda percayai dan trust ...luahkan isi hati....jumpa kounselor........jgn pendamkan....nanti MALATOP.


Selalunya kita akan mengunkit kebaikan kita......look back....tanya pada diri kita sendiri...ADAKAH SUMBANGAN DARI PEHAK KITA MENGCUKUPI....ATAU KITA SELALU MENGHARAPKAN SUMBANGAN DIA?
Kita hanya menerima saja...........

Tentu kita ingat..........The power of GIVING.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! jgn ada syarat.......

The more love
you give, the more you will receive. ...Ingat hukum karma.....

To love is to give of yourself, freely
and unconditionally. ...Jangan mengunkit kebaikan kita,,sumbangan kita....

Practice random acts of kindness. Allah memberi ganjaran yang besar keatas suami yang membuat kebaikan keatas isterinya....begitu juga keatas isteri yg taat kepada suami.....ingat ...syurga isteri terletak di tapak kaki suami.........

The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship
is to.................. always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

Friday, November 10, 2006

...AN AFFAIR....


Terima call dari kawan....mengatakan husbandnya mempunyai "affair" dgn teman se pejabat nya...
Dia ingin mendapatkan nasihat dan bagaimana nak memperbaiki keadaan.

Actually ...i dunno how to start...susah nak cakap dgn dia dalam talipon..so.......let me put it in this blog ...dan mengharapkan dia dan husband nya membaca blog ini ....


How can an affair be forgiven?


It is vital that you both understand the real reasons why it happened.Kenapa ianya terjadi.....Muhasabah diri.....Cuba tanya "adakah diri aku ini salah satu penyebabnya?"

To do this you will have to talk about what had been going on between you in the time leading up to the affair.

This can be very painful, but unless you know what went wrong, you won't be able to change things in the future.

Kita mesti bersikap "positif" dan"... berfikiran terbuka"...kalau tidak perbincangan tak akan jadi.......kalau sorang bercakap sorang mesti "mendengar dgn baik"

Be patient. ....pray...pray....doa....doa.....doa......solat....solat......

Rebuilding trust that has been broken can take a long time.Jgn sesekali mengungkit cerita lama......nanti cerita itu akan berulang.......

.....besok saya akan sambung lagi.....HOW TO MEND IT.

Thursday, November 09, 2006

..Bahasa Sarawak......

...ini rekaan semata-semata.........

Kalau saudara berada di Kuching International Airport.......Bahasa Melayu Sarawak di gunakan.........baru lah ada integerasi bahasa..........

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

....KENAPE KEJAM SANGAT......

KUALA LUMPUR: Police have picked up a prominent political analyst attached with a politically well-connected think-tank for questioning over the gruesome murder of a Mongolian model whose body was blown to bits.

The man, who is in his 40s, was taken from his office in Ampang here by several policemen at about 10am yesterday.

The private think-tank conducts research and prints publications on politics, economics, defence and international relations.

The analyst is being detained at the federal police headquarters in Bukit Aman where he is assisting a special task force set up to probe the murder of 28-year-old Altantuya Shaariibuu.

The analyst is expected to be remanded today.

Altantuya, who goes by the name Anna and said to be a stunning beauty from Ulaanbaatar, arrived in Kuala Lumpur about a month ago. (star on line)

Awal pagi buka internet...baca berita on line......terkezut membaca berita ini..........

MENGAPA HARUS MEMBUNUH.......TAK ADAKAH JALAN PENYELESAIAN LAIN..?

Kalau ditenguk kes ini....seorang model mencari bapa kpd anaknya di Malaysia ni(vip)...

Komen kawan-kawan....

1.Far....."Sapa VIP ni?....Adakah dia ni memang dah kahwin dgn model mongolia ini dan ada anak....dan kerana takut diketahui bininya dan org ramai ..ia sanggup membunuh......"


2.Kas......"Aku rasa lah, perempuan ni nak blackmail VIP ni......kerna itu ia dibunuh......"

3.Teruna....."Kerna takut rahsia terbongkarlah model ni dibunuh......kejam ,sungguh kejam..."

4.Man......."Yang hairannya kenapa anggota polis khas terlibat dan telah diremand sekarang ni...ini agaknya lah....ada org penting/vvip yang terlibat.....Siapa dapat memberi arahan kat polis khas ni?.......ini soalan cepu emas......"

5.Dr Amm......".kelemahan lelaki.....good lesson for all man....."

6.Zuk......"Dimana hati dan perasaan dia org....sanggup bunuh dan meletupkan mayat tu...?"

7.Zam......."Sepandai-pandai tupai melompat akhirnya jatuh ke tanah juga........dia letupkan kerana nak hapuskan evidence.....tapi Allah maha mengetahui...."

8.Suhairi......."Dia org tak takut tuhan ke?......Sebenarnya dimana lebih utama......antara maruah atau malu dgn orang ramai dgn dosa dgn Allah yang pembalasannya sangat pedih sekali..."

9.Mat......."kalau dah ...kahwin lah...terima je kalau dia dah dtg kat Malaysia....org kutuk habis lama 2 minggu je...lepas tu penat lah mulut dia org"

10.Marzuki......."Aku rasa mamat vip ni.....underestimate model ni....mungkin dia tak jangka ianya akan dtg ke Malaysia......tup tup dia datang.....panik lah.."

Brader......maybe kita boleh belajar sesuatu daripada kejadian ini.....tak perlulah nak explain panjang-panjang.....u all dah tau apa puncanya......so the best thing elak lah......

....U ALL PERASAN TAK......LELAKI YANG DI SUSPEK TERLIBAT....40 TAHUN KEATAS.....SO KAWAN-KAWAN.....U ALL VULNERABLE......HE HE LOL

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

OPEN HOUSE RAYEE....












Pada 5 hb...kita buat open house raya utk kawan-kawan yang tak sempat nak dtg rumah masa hari raya pertama dan kedua.....

Hectic...tapi rasa sungguh satisfied...non stop kawan-kawan dtg dari jam 9 sampai jam 3 petang.....

Friday, November 03, 2006

SUSAH........DAN ....SENANG....


SENANG JE....

SUSAH..........

SENANG JE .....to judge the mistakes of others

SUSAH is......... to recognize our own mistakes

SENANG JE....... is to talk without thinking..CAKAP LEPAS JE...MELASER SANA SINI...

SUSAH......... is to refrain the tongue

SENANG......is to hurt someone who loves us....taking them for granted...tanpa menghargai mereka....

Susah....... is to heal the wound...walaupun luka sembuh...tapi parutnya masih...kan?

Senang...... to forgive others....barang yang lepas jgn di kenang...

susah....... is to ask for forgiveness

senang........ is to set rules.....

susah........... is to follow them..

senang je....... is to dream every night.

susah........is to fight for a dream...

Senang....... is to show victory...bermegah...banggga

Susah........... is to assume defeat with dignity...menerima kekalahan dgn hati yang terbuka....

Senang........... is to admire a full moon.

Susah.........to see the other side...yg gelap gulita

Senang....... is to stumble with a stone.

susah...... is to get up...

Senang....... is to enjoy life every day.

Susah........to give its real value...

Senang......... is to promise something to someone.

Susah............ is to fulfill that promise...


Sangat senang........... is to say we love.

Paling susah.............. is to show it every day...


Senang......... is to criticize others.semua org tak betul...kita je yang betul..kita je yang pandai.....

Paling susah............ is to improve oneself...utk berubah menjadi lebih baik.....tak insaf-insaf lagi....


Senang......... is to make mistakes.

Susah...........is to learn from them...


Senang......... is to weep for a lost love.

susah............... is to take care of it so not to lose it.


Paling senang........... is to think about improving...berangan nak berubah....setiap tahun ada je azam baru

Paling susah.............. is to stop thinking it and put it into action...


senang je.......is to think bad of others..mempunyai pra sangka buruk dgn org.....

susahkan................. is to give them the benefit of the doubt...


Paling senang dan best........... is to receive

Paling susah dan tak best......... is to give...merungut asyik asyik aku je...mana tahan


SENANG......... to read this

SUSAH........... to follow


senang.........is keep the friendship with words

susahkan.........is to keep it with meanings

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

..ha ha ha.....men are better friends


Women: A wife was not at home for a whole night.

So, the very next
Morning, she tells her husband that she stayed at her girlfriend's
Apartment over night.

The husband calls 10 of her best girlfriend's and
Only one of them confirm that.

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Men: A husband was not at home for a whole night.

So he tells his wife the
Very next morning, that he stayed at his friend's apartment over night.

So
The wife calls 10 of his best friends:

........5 of them confirm that he stayed at
Their apartments that night,...............

and the other 5 are claiming that he still is
There with them!




Conclusion of the story:
Men are better friends ..