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PRICELESS

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..................................................patung yang menyambut anda di Damai..........................................
Seorang penceramah started off his seminar by

holding up a rm50.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked,

"Ada sesiapa disini yang inginkan duit rm50 ini?"

Hands started going up dan sambil menjerit "saya..saya".

He said, "I am going to give this rm50 to one of you

but first, let me do this.

He proceeded to crumple up the rm50
He then asked, "Who ,siapa yang masih inginkan duit ini?"

Still the hands were up in the air.

Well, he replied, "What if I do this?"

And he dropped it on the ground

and started to grind it,memijak-mijak duit itu diatas lantai dgn kasutnya...
He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.

"Now, who still wants it?"

Still dan masih ramai lagi yang inginkan duit itu.......

My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.

No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it

because it did not decrease …

Rasa bangga....

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Hari ini Hari Quality Sk Datok Traoh Kota Samarahan.......

Maizatul menerima beberapa hadiah kecemerlangan........tempat pertama... dan beberapa hadiah terbaik matapelajaran....

Abah rasa bangga kerana maizatul telah berjaya melepasi ujian yang pertama UPSR dengan mendapat 5A dan KAFA 5A........semuga maizatul akan terus cemerlang dalam pepereksaan yang akan datang.....

...Bend...but dont break

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When I think about the bamboo tree's ability to bounce back or return to it's original position, the word resilience comes to mind.
When used in reference to a person this word means the ability to readily recover from ........shock.......kesedihan......depression
.......kekecewaan
......or any other situation that stretches the limits of a person's emotions.Have you ever felt like you are about to snap...nak meletop...(my wife used to say"bom atom nak meletup")? Have you ever felt like you are at your breaking point?During the experience you probably felt a mix of emotions . You felt emotionally drained, mentally exhausted and
you most likely endured unpleasant physical symptoms such as..sakit kepala...gastric pain...palpitation..tremors..mata berpinar-pinar etc.Life is a mixture of good times and bad times, happy moments and unhappy moments. The next time you are experiencing one of those bad times or unhappy moments that take you close to your breaking point, bend…

..kesan jangka panjang...

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Apakah kesan jangkamasa panjang sesuatu "affair" itu (Long-term effects of an affair) Aabila sudah berlaku sesuatu "affair " itu........"Tepuk dada tanya selera".....atau" tepuk dada tanya iman"................Only you can decide what to do in the aftermath of an affair,....................and whatever you decide will not be easy. Bukan senang brader.....banyak yang harus diambil kira....hati orang yg kita lukai....hati anak-anak.....
Many affairs cause havoc in a relationship that is already dogged with problems.
Affairs do sometimes provoke far-reaching changes that eventually strengthen and enhance the relationship. ..............The cost can be very high, however. An affair can also have destructive effects on your family. .Children,.......... in-laws,........... friends,...................... may all find themselves caught up in events, and perhaps having to take sides. .Permanent barriers can be created.
Walaubagaimana pun...selalunya.....an …

...MENDING A RELATIONSHIP........

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Apabila berlakunya hubungan terlarang....atau 'affair' atau "skandal" dan anda "terkantoi".....dan anda menyesalinya dan .......yang pentingnya anda ingin berubah.......so what should you do ?
What helps to mend a relationship?Bagaimana nak membaiki hati yang telah kita lukai?...(dari pengelaman silam kawan-kawan)
·The unfaithful partner must end the affair, once and for all.Look back...reevaluate...is it "love" or just "lust"......."cinta atau Nafsu"........atau sengaja nak" test market"Dari pengelaman kawan-kawan...ianya bermula dgn "saje-saje"..."kawan je"....."penasihat peribadi"......."kasihan".......
·Talk it through.Talk openly to your partner.... This process may take days,........ weeks, or longer. Don't talk on for hours and hours -Jangan bercakap pada satu masa(one sitting aje)...... you'll just go round in circles.
Set a time limit, and don't talk when you&…

...AN AFFAIR....

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Terima call dari kawan....mengatakan husbandnya mempunyai "affair" dgn teman se pejabat nya...
Dia ingin mendapatkan nasihat dan bagaimana nak memperbaiki keadaan.

Actually ...i dunno how to start...susah nak cakap dgn dia dalam talipon..so.......let me put it in this blog ...dan mengharapkan dia dan husband nya membaca blog ini ....


How can an affair be forgiven?

It is vital that you both understand the real reasons why it happened.Kenapa ianya terjadi.....Muhasabah diri.....Cuba tanya "adakah diri aku ini salah satu penyebabnya?"
To do this you will have to talk about what had been going on between you in the time leading up to the affair.
This can be very painful, but unless you know what went wrong, you won't be able to change things in the future.
Kita mesti bersikap "positif" dan"... berfikiran terbuka"...kalau tidak perbincangan tak akan jadi.......kalau sorang bercakap sorang mesti "mendengar dgn baik"
Be patient. ....pray...pr…

..Bahasa Sarawak......

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...ini rekaan semata-semata.........

Kalau saudara berada di Kuching International Airport.......Bahasa Melayu Sarawak di gunakan.........baru lah ada integerasi bahasa..........

....KENAPE KEJAM SANGAT......

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KUALA LUMPUR: Police have picked up a prominent political analyst attached with a politically well-connected think-tank for questioning over the gruesome murder of a Mongolian model whose body was blown to bits. The man, who is in his 40s, was taken from his office in Ampang here by several policemen at about 10am yesterday. The private think-tank conducts research and prints publications on politics, economics, defence and international relations. The analyst is being detained at the federal police headquarters in Bukit Aman where he is assisting a special task force set up to probe the murder of 28-year-old Altantuya Shaariibuu. The analyst is expected to be remanded today. Altantuya, who goes by the name Anna and said to be a stunning beauty from Ulaanbaatar, arrived in Kuala Lumpur about a month ago. (star on line)Awal pagi buka internet...baca berita on line......terkezut membaca berita ini..........MENGAPA HARUS MEMBUNUH.......TAK ADAKAH JALAN PENYELESAIAN LAIN..?K…

OPEN HOUSE RAYEE....

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Pada 5 hb...kita buat open house raya utk kawan-kawan yang tak sempat nak dtg rumah masa hari raya pertama dan kedua.....

Hectic...tapi rasa sungguh satisfied...non stop kawan-kawan dtg dari jam 9 sampai jam 3 petang.....

SUSAH........DAN ....SENANG....

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..ha ha ha.....men are better friends

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