...AN AFFAIR....


Terima call dari kawan....mengatakan husbandnya mempunyai "affair" dgn teman se pejabat nya...
Dia ingin mendapatkan nasihat dan bagaimana nak memperbaiki keadaan.

Actually ...i dunno how to start...susah nak cakap dgn dia dalam talipon..so.......let me put it in this blog ...dan mengharapkan dia dan husband nya membaca blog ini ....


How can an affair be forgiven?


It is vital that you both understand the real reasons why it happened.Kenapa ianya terjadi.....Muhasabah diri.....Cuba tanya "adakah diri aku ini salah satu penyebabnya?"

To do this you will have to talk about what had been going on between you in the time leading up to the affair.

This can be very painful, but unless you know what went wrong, you won't be able to change things in the future.

Kita mesti bersikap "positif" dan"... berfikiran terbuka"...kalau tidak perbincangan tak akan jadi.......kalau sorang bercakap sorang mesti "mendengar dgn baik"

Be patient. ....pray...pray....doa....doa.....doa......solat....solat......

Rebuilding trust that has been broken can take a long time.Jgn sesekali mengungkit cerita lama......nanti cerita itu akan berulang.......

.....besok saya akan sambung lagi.....HOW TO MEND IT.

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