Wednesday, February 28, 2007

kesulitan.....


Dr 'Aidh 'Abdullah al-Qarni menukilkan menerusi kitabnya La Tahzan bahawa:
"Kesulitan itu sebenarnya.....
akan menguatkan hati,
menghapuskan dosa,
menghancurkan ujub,
menguburkan sombong,
meluruhkan kelalaian,
menyalakan lantera zikir,
menarik empati sesama,
menjadi doa yang dipanjatkan orang soleh,
mewujudkan ketundukan dan penyerahan kepada Yang Maha Esa, sebagai sebuah peringatan diri,
sebuah upaya menghidupkan zikir,
sebuah upaya menjaga hati dengan sabar,
sebuah persiapan mengadap Tuhan dan sebuah celaan untuk tidak cenderung kepada dunia,
merasa aman dan tenang dengannya

Maka adulah segala kegelisahan, kesulitan dan kesedihan yang tidak terzahir kepada Allah swt. Mohonlah dengan penuh tawaduk dan berharap kepada-Nya di samping berusaha mengubah keadaan, nescaya akan Dia perkenankan, kerana itulah janji-Nya menerusi Surah al-Mukminun, ayat ke 60:
"Berdoalah kamu kepada-Ku, nescaya akan Aku perkenankan bagimu."

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Damai golf and country club








Pada cuti Tahun Baru Cina...spend masa bermain golf di Damai golf and country club....
...Damai golf course ini di design oleh Arnold Palmer....
..Course ini menghadap Laut China Selatan di tepi Pantai Damai dan di kaki Gunung Santubong....mempunyai pemandangan yang sungguh indah......

Thursday, February 15, 2007

anai-anai dan lampu

anai(moth) tertarik dgn cahaya di court tennis unimas

Semasa main tenis sebelah malam...kita terpaksa berlawan dgn anai-anai (moth) selain daripada opponents kita.....tertelan pun ada ....
But we can learn something from this anai-anai.......

In life...dalam kehidupan kita seharian ....kita selalunya and always try to impress people......atau try to make an impression on someone....samada it is a parent or child.....bussiness associate.....kawan sekerja....majikan....atau boss kita.
well......it is not a bad thing.....ini adalah sebahagian daripada human interaction that most people dont learned that well.......

So brader.....in these human interaction....IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO BE THE FLAME(CAHAYA)..BUKANNYA ANAI-ANAI OR MOTH...AS A FIRE'S ENERGY ATTRACTING THE MOTH.....

So macamana nak jadi "flame".........
Brader....as a person ....you have to find ways to let your internal flame shines......to let the real you come out....atau kecantikan dalaman menonjol atau terserlah.............tak hensem tak pe...tapi hati mau baik beb......
Internal flame ini termasuk....
1.Keimanan....the closer kita dgn our Creator...kecantikan dalaman terserlah....
2.intergrity
3.character
4.attitude yang positive
5.Sifat sentiasa BERSYUKUR

Lastly....brader......BEAUTIFUL ENERGY WILL ATTRACT OTHERS.....JUST LIKE A MOTH TO A FIRE....

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

..manyak cuccah mau tawin wo...


Received this from kawan....and would like to share with you all.....ha ha ha.....

This is a story about Ahbeng in search of a wife with the help of his mother,
Ahkew. One day Ahbeng's mother bring home 3 pretty girls and introduce to Ahbeng.
The 3 pretty girls name and occupation :
1.) Ahuey - Telephonist
2.) Ahmoi - Primary Skool Teacher
3.) Ahlian - Bus Conductor

Ahbeng very sexcited lar of course then after a while of


chatting with the girls his mother asked him.

Ahkew : Ahbeng, how ? Which one you like the most ?
Ahbeng : I like Ahlian the most
Ahkew : Aiyoh bus conductor only wor! where got future wan? Ahmoi not bad leh!
gomen work you know? good benefit, next time your children wanna goto skool also
easy
Ahbeng : Ahmah dunwan laaa!!
Ahkew : Why dunwan?
Ahbeng : bcoz skool teacher they love to say " PLEASE REPEAT!! DO AGAIN!!! I Want
it done 10 times...SOME MORE, SOME MORE!" Like this very tiring everynite I can
die one ahmah!
Ahkew : aiyoo!!! then Ahuey lar! at least she is better than Ahlian
Ahbeng : Dunwan also! ahmah, she is telephonist la! they love to say " WAIT A
MINIT! PLEASE HOLD ON!" dem potong stim lidat ahmah where got mood to make baby
la?
Ahkew : Aiyoyo!!! then what u like about Ahlian so much? bus conductor only wor!!!
Where got future one ?
Ahbeng : Ahmah you dunno wan la ... I always take mini bus to KL, those women bus
conductor always say "BANG! MASUK BELAKANG!!! MASUK DALAM SIKIT!!! DALAM ADA
TEMPAT!!! MASUK MASUK!!! " (in yingrish it means "go in behind, go deep inside! go
deeper some more! inside still got place!! deeper! deeper!!!) everytime they say
lidat i also very sexcited one !!!!

WUAHAHAHAHAHAA!!!!!

Monday, February 12, 2007

sperm count


Saya menerima satu sms dari pesakit saya....

"how much should a man's sperm be? is more or less important?
Ini adalah case pasangan yang menghadapi case infertility.......so let see the normal values .....

Normal values of semen variables (WHO 1992):

Semen analysis is an importanat male investigation.

Volume: 2 ml or more.

Liquefaction: normal (immediately after ejaculation the semen contains jelly like particles but after about 30 minutes these should liquefy more or less completely).

Count: 20 million or more sperm per ml.

Morphology: 30% or more of the sperm should have normal shape.

Motility: 50% more of the sperm should be swimming and moving forward.

Vitality: 75% or more of the sperm should be alive.

Cells: white cell count should be less than 1 million per ml. If there are more cells, this may be an indication of an infection.

A normal sperm test is reassuring.

If the test is abnormal the test will need to be repeated two to three times over two to three months to confirm whether the abnormality is persistent or not.

Remember.......................... that fertile men may have from time to time an abnormal test,............. so a single semen analysis test is of little significance.

Because of the natural variation in sperm quantity and quality, many doctors request that two or three samples be examined over an interval of one to three weeks.

It is just not possible to say with certainty that a man with a low sperm count is infertile, as many men with low or moderately low sperm counts are fertile.

Similarly, it is not possible to say with certainty that a man with a normal count is fertile as his sperm may be lacking fertilizing capacity.

Yang perlu di lakukan oleh pasangan ini....jangan putus asa utk berjumpa Pakar Perbidanan dan Sakit Puan. Dan yang paling penting sentiasa berdoa dan memohon kepada Allah Yang Maha Mengasihani dan Penyayang....

Friday, February 09, 2007

LIFE SMART

(perbincangan antara saya dgn Dtk Abg Maluan dan Dr hj Julaihi,timbalan pengarah pelajaran negeri Sarawak)
Lately....sering kita baca di surat khabar dan disiarkan di tv ,berita orang bijak pandai kecundang.....

.....seorang politikal analisis yang sangat tajam pemikiran dan idea nya...kecundang dgn kecantikan dan keayuan....

.....Pensyarah universiti yang melakukan perkara-perkara yang tak elok....

.....Doktor dituduh membunuh...

.....doktor di dakwa menjadi pengedar dadah....

.....pegawai kanan kerajaan di tuduh rasuah....

....ustaz di tangkap berkhalwat dan sebagai......

Brader.....you have undoubtedly noticed that many people with....bachalor degree, master degree....phd holder...super specialist doctor.....aren't very happy...or tak bahagia dalam kehidupan mereka.
Seseorang itu can have a fancy education.dan pelbagai degree......but still not very WISE.
BOOK SMART DOES NOT MEAN LIFE SMART....

Kita selalu dapati...even most brilliant of university graduates wind up going nowhere EMOTIONALLY......FINANCIALLY.......AND SOCIALLY.
There is a big difference between INTELLECTUALS AND INTELLIGENT PEOPLE.
Satu perkara perlu kita ingatkan....successful people of this world did not learn the secrets of handling "kegagalan" di universiti........they learned these secrets di arena yang dipanggil "life by doing" or di luar sana yang penuh cabaran dan dugaan.

My friends.....MENTAL,PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL HEALTH.....TIDAK BERGANTUNG OR DEPENDENT UPON A DEGREE FROM UM KE,USM KE,UKM KE ETC.....or EVEN FROM HARVARD.
A universiti degree tak mengajar people how to deal with pressures of life or how to attain happiness and satisfaction....

Intelect is not a wisdom....tobe LIFE SMART...YOUR WISDOM ALONG WITH YOUR CREATIVITY AND MOTIVATION MUST BE SUPERIOR TO YOUR INTELLECT.
THE REALLY IMPORTANT THINGS YOU LEARN IN LIFE ARE THE RESULT OF YOUR REAL EDUCATION...AN EDUCATION THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE CURRICULLA IN PLACE AT SCHOOL AND UNIVERSITY.....ANDA MEMPEROLEHI EDUCATION INI THRO YOUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.


Thursday, February 08, 2007


At times...kadang-kadang you may think that you are deprived of many good things in life.......
Feeling deprived is normally a result of comparing yourself to people who appear to have more than you.
Kalau nak buat permainan comparison...kenape kita tak bandingkan dgn ..ie...orang Afrika ke...Indon ke...yang mana poverty yang rampant,no health care,constant violence dan peperangan dan sebagainya.

KADANG-KADANG KITA TAK TAK PERASAN YANG KITA SEBENARNYA "MEWAH"..THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS IN OUR LIVES FOR WHICH KITA SEPATUTNYA BERSYUKUR KEPADA ALLAH.

Brader......Being trully rich goes beyond money...its not how much you own that matters so much as how you use what you own.....
Yes brader....you may not be as wealthy as you would like to be,...but you are as wealthy as you need to be happy and satisfying life.

Deep down in your heart...you know that you are already rich as you need to be in a comfortable life....Berikan perhatian to the luxuries that you have in your life....instead of memikirkan benda-benda yang kita tak ada atau tak punya.....then you will appreciate your truen wealth.

........."NOT HE HAS LITTLE,BUT HE WHO WISHES MORE..IS POOR" (seneca)

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

.you are 40 ..when......


Masa membeli buku teks utk anak-anak.....Maizatul dan Zizi mengambil sebuah buku "you know you are above 40 when....."
Dia orang berdua saje nak kenakan Abah....sambil gelak ketawa mahukan abah beli buku itu....I told them..."abah belum 40 lagi ,,tak payah beli"

Any way....ini adalah senarai yang pahit...or painful things that remind me that i am sudah 40 and above....


1.A cute waitress,or salesgirl kat shopping complex panggil "Pak cik"

2.Bangun pagi...lutut dan ankle berasa sakit...

3."john" dah tak berape nak automatic la ni....terpaksa kena pujuk dan dibelai..

4.
my wife dah belikan inai...nak colorkan rambut...supaya tak banyak kelihatan rambut-rambut yang putih....biar nampak blonde sikit.

5.Dah ada simptom nocturia on and off....kena check for diabetis and hypertension

6.Bila main tenis....satu set je...dah mengah and semput..

7.Bila makan...wife dan anak selalu ingatkan..."abah ...jangan makan itu...jangan makan ini"

8.Rasa menyesal beli rumah dua tingkat....naik tangga dan turun tangga sakit lutut.

9.Balik kampung ..dah tak boleh gunakan tandas mencangkung.....

10.sekarang dah start ambik banyak supplements...vit E,antioxidant,tongkat ali....dll

Banyak lagi kalau nak list kan disini.....menyedihkan......tapi untuk menyedapkan hati......ingat tak..kata-kata ini..."OLD AGE AND TREACHERY WILL ALWAYS OVERCOME YOUTH AND SKILL"

You all macam mana...?

Friday, February 02, 2007

..stay young


Lately ramai kawan-kawan cakap.."doc..u now look younger...Apa rahsianya".
I am not sure samada I look younger or what.....tapi....I always feel young at heart.

Band Di selalu cakap..."Dari pusat keatas...umur nya 48
,dari pusat ke bawah 28". Its all up in your minds......yessss!!!very true brader...gua caya lu lah...

HOW TO STAY YOUNG?
1.Umur tu...just a number...begitu jugak dgn berat and tinggi...itu semua just a number...All you have to do...just throw away the number.
Umur can be classified as....physiological age....mentally age....phyisical age...and so forth....How you look at it.

2.Keep only cheerful friends.
The "muka masam friends" will pull you down.

3.Keep learning.
Belajarlah benda-benda atau ilmu baru...such as computer...about plants...animals....dan lain-lain lagi.
....JANGAN BIARKAN OTAK KITA BERKARAT.

4.Enjoy the simple things in life.

5.Senyum...Ketawa....memanjangkan umur and make you muda.

6.Tears...sedih..duka ...its happen.
..endure it..grieve..and move on.

7.surround yourself with what you love
..samada dgn famili....pets....music...menari...hobbies...or games.

8Cherish your health...
.....if it is good.....kekalkan dan preserve it..
.....if it is unstable....jumpa doktor anda...improve it

9.Tell people that you love..you love them,... at every opportunity

10.Berkawan dgn org muda...you akan rasa muda.
....Bang Di tambah.."cari girlfriend muda...you akan terpaksa berusaha menjadi muda dan berusaha utk mendapatkan tenaga muda"

11.Berolahraga
...pergi exercise...main games...pergi gyms....kita akan bertenaga muda.


Thursday, February 01, 2007

..wife hilang masa shopping.....


A MAN APPROACED A VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN A LARGE SUPER MARKET AND SAID.

"YOU KNOW I HAVE LOST MY WIFE HERE IN THE SUPERMARKET. CAN YOU PLEASE TALK TO ME FOR A COUPLE OF MINUTES/"

"BUT HOWS THAT GOING TO HELP ?" ASKED THE WOMAN

WELL REPLIED THE MAN " BECAUSE EVERY TIME I TALK TO A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, MY WIFE APPEARS OUT OF NO WHERE