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Happy New Year Now is the day to apply what we have learned from past experience, and to make the world an even brighter place. Now is the time to do something about not just the symptoms, but the fundamental causes of our difficulties. Now is the time for true and sustained commitment. The sparkling new era in front of us deserves more than just half-hearted new year’s resolutions. My Beloved Bros,Sisters,Friends…Let this truly be a day of great beginnings. Make the commitment to live, to give, to love, to be a positive force,. Make a real difference and make it a great new year.

Stimulation I recently saw(tv3), a brain researcher discussing early learning in children, and what steps parents could take to help their children become more intelligent. His most emphatic suggestion was: sensory stimulation. He even recommended exposing children to movement and music while they are still in the womb. Stimulation of the senses creates electrical activity in the brain, and this accelerates the formation of pathways between the brain cells. These pathways, called dendrites, are the basis for intelligence. The more, the better. We’re born with a fixed number of brain cells, but there’s no limit to the number of connecting pathways that can be created. I found this all very interesting, and it has an unmistakable ring of truth. Receiving a healthy variety of sensory stimulation is important, no matter what age.(esp at my age..late 4series) I know that I always feel more energized after listening to good music…, driving at the countryside,…. riding my motorbike, …..hik

Kata-kata Nasihat Ibnu Qayyim : Di dalam hati manusia ada kekusutan dan tidak akan terurai kecuali menerima kehendak Allah swt. Di dalam hati manusia ada keganasan dan tidak akan hilang kecuali berjinak dengan dengan Allah swt Di dalam hati manusia ada kesedihan dan tidak akan hilang kecuali seronok mengenali Allah swt Di dalam hati manusia ada kegelisahan dan tidak akan tenang damai kecuali berlindung, bertemu dan berjumpa denganNya Di dalam hati manusia ada penyesalan dan tidak akan padam kecuali redha dengan suruhan dan laranganNya serta qadha dan qadarNya serta kesenantiasaan sabar sehingga menemuiNya Di dalam hati manusia ada hajat dan tidak akan terbendung kecuali kecintaan kepadaNya dan bermohon kepadaNya.

Selalu kita dengar keluhan … “ Dia tak respek aku sebagai ketua dia…” “ at least hormat lah aku sebagai suami….” “ antara kami kasih sayang sudah luntur …agak nya dia tak menyintai saya lagi….” Kita selalu expect sesuatu dari orang lain,tapi tanyalah diri kita sendiri….ada kah kita sendiri bersikap seperti yang kita kehendaki dari nya… Kalau anda ingin…. Kalau anda ingin DIHORMATI, hendaklah diri kita mempunyai perasaan MENGHORMATI orang lain…tak kiralah apa status nya… Kalau anda ingin DIFAHAMI, jadilah satu kebiasan MEMAHAMI keadaan,sifat,budaya org lain sebelum membuat judgement.. Kalau anda ingin DIHARGAI (appreciated),hendak sentiasa BERSYUKUR atas nikmat yang ada..(ever grateful)… Kalau anda ingin DICINTAI…belajarlah untuk MENCINTAI setiap masa dan apa jua keadaan…. Kalau anda ingin BELAJAR, ambil lah masa untuk MENGAJAR dan BERKONGSI ILMU…. Kalau anda ingin INGIN BERJAYA DALAM KERJAYA ANDA, hendaklah MEMBANTU ORANG LAIN UTK BERJAYA... Kalau anda ingin menjadi orang yang B

Kindness continues Think of how good it feels when someone is kind to you. Make it your goal to pass that feeling along to others every chance you get. Give kindness and something amazing happens. Your own strength, confidence and joy will increase. Give kindness, and it keeps going. Give kindness, and it continues long past the original expression. Kindness inspires more kindness. A little bit of kindness can go a long, long way. But why stop with just a little? Offer great kindness, again and again, and you truly change the world. Add some kindness to your world today. And see the positive benefits as it continues to grow beyond you.

The beliefs, the values, the commitments that are sincerely yours are the ones that are evidenced by your actions. You can talk all day about what you’re going to do, or about the things that are truly important to you. What really makes a difference is not what you say you’ll do, but rather what you actually do. Your thoughts, your ideas, your beliefs are given life by your actions. Your values, your commitments, your priorities are made real and given meaning when you put them into practice. The person you become depends not on who you wish to become, not on who you would like to become, not on who you hope to become. The person you become depends on what you do with every moment that you live. Exactly what values, goals, ambitions and priorities are you willing to put into practice? That is the person you will be.

Got this from my friend's fb wall... The Best Moments In Life 1. Falling in love. 2. Laughing till your stomach hurts. 3. Enjoying a ride through the country side. 4. Listening to your favorite song on the radio. 5. Going to sleep listening to the rain falling outside. 6. Getting out of the shower and wrapping yourself with a warm, fuzzy towel. 7. Passing your final exams with good grades. 8. Being a part of an interesting conversation. 9. Finding some money in some old pants. 10. Laughing at yourself. 11. Sharing a wonderful dinner with all your friends. 12. Laughing without a reason. 13. "Accidentally" hearing someone say something nice about you. 14. Watching the sunset. 15. Listening to a song that reminds you of an important person in your life. 16. Receiving or giving your first kiss. 17. Feeling the buzz in your body when seeing that "special" someone. 18. Having a great time with your friends. 19. Seeing the one you love happy. 20. Wearing the shirt of a

Jika kita diberi pilihan...If you could choose.. Sebenarnya dalam kehidupan kita, kita selalu dan sentiasa diberi peluang untuk memilih…antara keaadan A atau B..atau siA atau siB…tapi selalu pilihan kita tak menepati diri kita..tapi itu still pilihan kita… kita – dan hanya kita sendiri – satu-satunya yang memutuskan apa yang kita pikirkan dari waktu ke waktu… Bila-bila pun Kita dapat memutuskan untuk mengambil jalan susah atau sulit menuju kesuksesan dan kemakmuran dengan memilih untuk menjalani kehidupan dengan semangat, kemuliaan dan kecermelangannya, atau Atau kita dapat mengambil jalan yang mudah menuju kehidupan yang biasa-biasa saja…. Cuba jawab senerio berikut…. If you could choose the life you live, how would it be? If you could choose your surroundings, what would they look like? If you could choose the people with whom you associate, who would they be? If you could choose your activities, what would you be doing? If you could choose your thoughts, what would you think?

Give Just imagine how positive it would make your day if you offered a gift to everyone with whom you came in contact. It wouldn’t have to be a material gift, It could be the gift of your undivided attention, or a kind word, a smile, or perhaps a helping hand. It would be given freely and willingly, with genuine love and consideration, and with the expectation of nothing in return. The more you give of yourself, the more you’ll understand and appreciate how very much you have to give. Though most who receive your gifts will appreciate their sincerity, there will be those who won’t. But that doesn’t matter at all. What truly brings value to your life is the giving itself, undertaken with a sense of love and caring. Give, and your world improves dramatically with each gift. Continue to give, and the positive energy builds upon itself. Think about it, and you’ll see that you have plenty to give. If life seems dreary and pointless, try giving of yourself, and you’ll quickly experience

Following is a letter to his son from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster / Child Psychologist. The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents.! This applies to daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their children. Dear Son , I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons : 1. Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable; nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early. 2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will. 3. What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. Remember the following as you go through life 1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because,everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to

More Take Care | Forward this Graphic Pernah tak merasa TERPEGUN, ADMIRE, TERTARIK, TERPESONA AND IMPRESS dengan seseorang...Semua org pernah kan…Kita sendiri pun dapat meng”impress” org lain,atau org ramai… Bagaimana cara nya…kita ambil cara yg paling simple….. If you truly want to impress others, seek to impress them with who they are, rather than with who you are. Work to genuinely bring out the best in others, and they’ll certainly see the best in you. The strongest leaders do not command, they empower. The most effective teachers do not impose their knowledge, they infect students with a passion for learning. The most successful salespeople do not trick their customers into buying, they seek to understand and fulfill the true needs of those customers. The most successful businesses do not steal value, they create and distribute it in exchange for other value. Bayangkan org yg anda kagumi….Think of the people who impress you the most, and you’ll see that they’re the ones who a

Give a little kindness A negative attitude can be contagious. Fortunately, so can a positive attitude. When someone is rude to you,Bila seseorang bertindak memarahi anda,Bila pelanggan kita bersikap kasar….Bertenanglah…tarik nafas panjang dan mula lah respond… the most powerful response is not to reply with your own rudeness. After all, what would that accomplish? Kalau kita bertindak “rude”:,kasar dan kurang ajar, maka apa hasil nya..samalah kita seperti nya… Your best choice in such a situation is to respond with courtesy, kindness, consideration and understanding.Tanam dalam fikiran kita bahawa kemungkinan dia ada masalah di tempat kerjanya,mungkin dia bergaduh dgn suami atau isteri dia dan sebagainya…. Though it may seem strange and unnatural at first, it can have a profoundly positive impact on the situation. Most people, when given the chance, will be glad for you to rescue them from their own negative momentum.Perasan tak kalau kita tak respon dgn sikap negative nya,dia akan sl

Your attitude is not something you’re stuck with forever. You can change it whenever you wish. Kita boleh megubah attitude kita ,memperbaiki attitude kita…dari tak berapa baik menjadi lebih baik,dari baik menjadi lebih baik. Your attitude does not define you. It does, however, represent you to the rest of the world.Masyarakat umum akan menilai kita dgn melihat attitude kita terhadap sesuatu perkara(event), tingkahlaku kita terhadap seseorang dan sebagainya… Your attitude does not determine who you are. It does, however, determine what you can accomplish.Attitude kita juga menentukan tahap kejayaan kita,tahap kesihatan kita,tahap kebahagian rumahtangga kita,tahap hubungan kita dgn rakan sekerja dsb. Your attitude is not the inevitable result of events that happen to you or circumstances that surround you. It is, instead, based on the way you choose to respond to the events and circumstances in your life.Attitude adalah bagaimana kita RESPON kpd perkara yg berlaku kpd kita,dan persekita

Many Blessings…(banyak hikmahnya) It’s easy to be thankful for the good things in your life. But have you also thought to be thankful for the setbacks? Consider what a positive difference that can make. Your gratitude will challenge you to see even the disappointments in a more positive, empowering light. When there’s something you don’t know, be thankful. You have just discovered an opportunity to learn. When difficulties come your way, be thankful. They put you in a position to grow and to become stronger. If you run up against your limitations, be thankful. You’ve just found a place to make improvements. When you become tired and weary, be thankful. You know you’ve made a difference. If you make a mistake, be thankful. Now you’ll remember clearly what not to do. Some of your blessings are immediately obvious. Many, however, are valuable because of the degree to which they compel you to learn, to grow, to persist and to endure. Life is filled with many blessings. Be thankful for the

Already Do you feel the need to be needed? You already are needed, so make yourself useful and you’ll easily satisfy that need you feel. Do you desire pleasure and comfort? Then allow yourself to be pleased with where you are and comfortable about the person you have become. Do you desire to be somebody, to really make others stand up and take notice? You already are someone special, and if you will simply live out your own unique possibilities, others will indeed take notice of the value you can offer. Would you like to have a life filled with richness and fulfillment? Life already offers an unending supply of richness, and opportunities for fulfillment in every direction, if you will open yourself up to live them. What is already yours is worth much more than anything you could strive to take. Make the most of that value, and in doing so you’ll find everything you could ever desire.

Things you can and cannot change There are things that you can change, and there are things that you cannot change. Both have much value. The things you can change can enable you to create, to achieve, to express yourself, and to improve the world in which you live. The things you cannot change give you the opportunity to grow stronger, to develop real wisdom, patience, acceptance, flexibility and effectiveness. There is much you can learn from the things you cannot change. And there are countless ways to positively apply that learning toward the things you can change. The things you cannot change give you a base from which to work. The things you can change give you an ever-increasing world of possibilities. When you accept what you cannot change and find positive ways to deal with it, you lay the groundwork for success. When you understand what you can change and find positive ways to put that change to work, success and achievement are yours. You are fortunate to live in a world whe

Accepting disagreement On a regular basis, you will likely disagree with others. Don’t let that disagreement control your life. There’s no need to become defensive when your opinions are challenged. Instead, let the challenges help you to further refine and clarify your own thinking. When you are confident of your own path in life, you will not be threatened by differing opinions. Instead of fighting against others who disagree, allow those differing perspectives to strengthen your own. There will always be those who think differently than you do. Learn to see that as a blessing, and learn to appreciate its value. True success is not a matter of forcing others to adopt your viewpoint. True success comes from making your life a full, complete and valuable expression of your own unique point of view. When you gratefully, peacefully, and lovingly accept disagreement, it loses its power to control your life. And you can transform it into something positive that will truly enhance your wor

Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini Some of the most powerful and valuable things in life are the things that never get used up. Indeed, those things such as LOVE, INTEGRITY, TRUTH, COMPASSION and WISDOM become more plentiful the more they’re used. STRENGTH does not get used up when you use it. In fact, it grows. Giving your LOVE does not in any way diminish the LOVE you have. It makes your LOVE RICHER AND MORE MEANINGFUL. Sharing your WISDOM with another person does not take that WISDOM away from you. It actually deepens your WISDOM, and makes it even more PROFOUND. As each moment passes, make full, joyous and meaningful use of life’s goodness. When you do, you’ll be making even more

Some of the most powerful and valuable things in life are the things that never get used up. Indeed, those things such as LOVE, INTEGRITY, TRUTH, COMPASSION and WISDOM become more plentiful the more they’re used. STRENGTH does not get used up when you use it. In fact, it grows. Giving your LOVE does not in any way diminish the LOVE you have. It makes your LOVE RICHER AND MORE MEANINGFUL. Sharing your WISDOM with another person does not take that WISDOM away from you. It actually deepens your WISDOM, and makes it even more PROFOUND. As each moment passes, make full, joyous and meaningful use of life’s goodness. When you do, you’ll be making even more

Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini Make the best You won’t always get the best, yet you can always make the best from whatever you get. You won’t always get your way, yet you can always make your way forward no matter what. Even when the situation is not perfect, you can make the best of it. Even when the initial outcome is not ideal, you can make the best of it. Instead of wishing for what could have been, choose to effectively and successfully deal with what is. Instead of assigning blame, assign yourself the task of finding and implementing a positive way forward. You can choose where you’re headed, no matter where you’re coming from. Stop wasting energy fighting against what has already happened, and apply that energy toward a positive purpose. Focus your awareness and your efforts on the most positive, desirable outcome. Make the best of the situation where you find yourself by visualizing and following a path to whatever you truly desire. You deserve the best, and you deserve the

terima email dari kawan..kita kongsi bersama...(tak terasa dada sebak,dan air mata mengalir)..alfatihah buat Emak ,di bulan ramadan ini mengamit perasaan rindu pd emak... Untuk tatapan dan renungan semua anak-anak….semuga ianya tidak berlaku kepada kita ya……….. "Mana Mak?' Jam 6.30 petang. Mak berdiri di depan pintu. Wajah Mak kelihatan resah. Mak tunggu adik bungsu balik dari sekolah agama. Ayah baru balik dari sawah. Ayah tanya Mak, “Along mana?’ Mak jawab, “Ada di dapur tolong siapkan makan.” Ayah tanya Mak lagi,” Angah mana?” Mak jawab, “Angah mandi, baru balik main bola.” Ayah tanya Mak, “Ateh mana?” Mak jawab, “Ateh, Kak Cik tengok tv dengan Alang di dalam?” Ayah tanya lagi, “Adik dah balik?” Mak jawab, “Belum. Patutnya dah balik. Basikal adik rosak kot. Kejap lagi kalau tak balik juga jom kita pergi cari Adik.” Mak jawab soalan ayah penuh yakin. Tiap-tiap hari ayah tanya soalan yang sama. Mak jawab penuh perhatian. Mak amb

LOVE IT…. Love what you do and it will be great. Love the world and it will be beautiful. Love this day and it will bring fulfillment. Love yourself and you’ll grow stronger. Love others and they’ll blossom. Love learning and you’ll be wise. Love a challenge and you’ll be skilled. Love the moments and they’ll propel you forward. Love the truth and you’ll understand. Love to make a difference and you’ll be admired. Love to be alive and your life will be full. Love to work and your work will bring true value. Love to play and you’ll experience true enjoyment. If you’re going to do it, love it, and see how much better it makes you. No one achieves greatness by doing what they detest. If you’re going to be it, if you’re going to live it, love it. Think of how exhilarating love can be. Think of how love can motivate you and inspire you like nothing else can. Tap into that power with every passing moment. It’s your life. Love it and make it great.

Maafkan lah… The more grudges you carry, the heavier your burden becomes. Forgive, and let them go.maafkanlah..ya memang susah tapi amat berbaloi…ular yg menyusur akar tidak akan hilang bisa nya…kita tak kan hina bila memaafkan bahkan mulia disisiNya. When someone has wronged you,menipu kita,pasangan berselingkuhan,....yes it hurts. There is certainly no sense in using your own time and energy to prolong that hurt. Forgive,maafkanlah…, and you can begin to move away from the pain. Forgive,maafkanlah, and you can move forward with a much lighter load. Forgiveness,kemaafan.. does not mean that you allow others to take advantage of you,dan bukan bermakna kita kalah, bukan bermaknakita lemah…hanya org yg kuat saja yg dapat memaafkan….On the contrary, forgiveness gives you positive power no matter what others may have done.

Have the courage.... Have the courage to appear foolish, for the real fools are those who never attempt anything. Have the courage to make mistakes, for they can teach you like nothing else can. Have the courage to take action. For even though your actions carry the possibility of failure, if you never act then you are certain to fail. Have the courage to live each day fully, with enthusiasm and a generous spirit. Though there are many problems in this world, there are a whole lot more positive possibilities. Have the courage to do what is right instead of what is easiest or most convenient. It will earn you the respect of others and, even more importantly, the respect of yourself. Have the courage to see and accept things for what they are. That will put you in position to make a real difference. Have the courage to love, to speak your mind, to follow your curiosity and your passions. Have the courage to give of yourself, for the goodness you give will come back to you over and over

Seorang yg sangat istimewa… Jadikan hari ini satu keutamaan utk melakukan sesuatu yg istimewa kpd seorg yg istimewa, seorg yg selalu kita “take for granted”…seorg yg deserves perhatian dan sokongan sepenuh nya…diri anda sendiri Being good atau pampering atau memanjakan diri sendiri bukanlah sifat pentingkan diri sendiri atau selfish. Ianya bukan bermakna kita tidak mempedulikan org lain…rather ,it make you able to offer more value to the other people in your world bila kita take good care diri kita sendiri… Putting yourself down is of no benefit to anyone… My sahabat yg budiman…BE POSITIVE WITH YOURSELF…. BE KIND AND GENEROUS WITH YOURSELF…. When was last time you did something nice for yourself? YOU DESERVE SOME SPECIAL ATTENTION….BE GOOD TO YOURSELF AND THAT GOODNESS WILL OVERFLOW INTO THE WORLD AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.

BATU KECIL Seorang pekerja pada projek bangunan memanjat ke atas tembok yang sangat tinggi. Pada suatu saat ia harus menyampaikan pesan penting kepadakawan kerjanya yang ada di bawahnya. Pekerja itu berteriak-teriak,tetapi temannya tidak mendengarnya kerana suara bising dari mesin-mesin dan orang-orang yang bekerja, sehingga usahanya sia-sia saja. Oleh kerana itu untuk menarik perhatian orang yang ada di bawahnya, ia mencuba melemparkan duit syiling di depan kawannya. kawannya berhenti bekerja, mengambil duit syiling itu lalu bekerja kembali. Pekerja itu mencuba lagi, tetapi usahanya yang kedua pun memperoleh hasil yang sama. Tiba-tiba ia mendapat idea. Ia mengambil batu kecil lalu melemparkannya ke arah orang itu. Batu itu tepat mengenai kepala temannya, dan karena merasa sakit, kawannya mendongak ke atas? Sekarang pekerja itu dapat menjatuhkan catatan yang berisi pesanannya. Cerita di atas hanya contoh perumpamaan untuk kita yang selalu lupa... Tuhan kadang-kadang menggunakan cubaan-

Whatever you give away today, or think or say or do, will multiply about tenfold, and then return to you. Sahabatku....It may not come immediately nor from the obvious source, but the law applies unfailingly through some invisible force. Whatever you feel about another, be it love or hate or passion, will surely bounce right back at you in some clear or secret fashion. Sahabatku....If you speak about someone a word of praise or two, soon tens of other people will speak kind words to you. Our thoughts are products of the soul, not secrets of the brain, kind ones bring us happiness, petty ones untold pain. Giving works as surely as reflections in a mirror, if hate you send, hate you'll get back, but loving brings love nearer. Remember as you start this day and duty crowds your mind, that kindness comes so quickly back to those who first are kind. Let that thought and this one direct you through each day.. . The only things we ever keep, are the things we give away.

Embracing Imperfection "When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite! When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burned toast.' Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work toda

To Be Your Best Self The good you find in others, is in you too. The faults you find in others, are your faults as well. After all, to recognize something you must know it. The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well. The beauty you see around you, is your beauty. The world around you is a reflection, a mirror showing you the person you are. To change your world, you must change yourself. To blame and complain will only make matters worse. Whatever you care about, is your responsibility. What you see in others, shows you yourself. See the best in others, and you will be your best. Give to others, and you give to yourself. Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful. Admire creativity, and you will be creative. Love, and you will be loved. Seek to understand, and you will be understood. Listen, and your voice will be heard. Show your best face to the mirror, and you'll be happy with the face looking back at you.

Kamu bernasib baik sekiranya memiliki kekasih yang sejati, kawan yang setia, dan orang lain yang sentiasa berada disekeliling untuk menyokong setiap tindakan kamu. Tetapi kamu perlu ingat, dua orang yang paling penting dalam hidup kamu adalah ayah dan ibu. Kamu mesti kuat supaya orang lain tidak dapat mengganggu ketenangan fikiran kamu, jangan terlalu cepat untuk marah, jangan menjadi seorang yang penakut, dan jangan sesekali kamu leka dengan kebahagiaan yang kamu ada sekarang. Kamu perlu tahu sekiranya kamu mempunyai masalah yang besar, pasti ada orang lain yang mempunyai masalah lebih besar daripada kamu. Jangan sesekali berasa putus asa terhadap apa yang kamu lakukan. Terus mengejar terhadap apa yang kamu impikan selama ini. Belajarlah untuk berjimat, jangan terlalu boros. Pulangan untuk jangka masa panjang adalah lebih baik daripada kepuasan jangka pendek. Kamu jangan jadi seorang yang kaki ampu. Kamu perlu tegas dengan pendirian kamu sendiri. Buktikan juga bahawa kamu mempunyai ha

(email dari seorang kawan..utk kita kongsi bersama..) Pesan Untuk Pendidikan Anak Sesungguhnya nikmat (yang diberikan) Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala tidak terhitung dan diantara nikmat-nikmat yang sangat agung dan mulia adalah nikmat anak. Allah Ta'ala berfirman: "Harta dan anak-anak adalah perhiasan kehidupan dunia." (Al-Kahfi: 46) Nikmat yang sangat agung ini adalah merupakan satu amanah dan tanggung jawab bagi kedua orang tua dan akan ditanya tentang nikmat tersebut pada hari Kiamat, Rasulullah Shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam bersabda: "Masing-masing kalian adalah pemimpin dan masing-masing kalian (akan) ditanya tentang kepemimpinan-nya: Seorang imam adalah pemimpin dan dia (akan) ditanya tentang kepemimpinannya, dan seorang laki-laki adalah pemimpin dalam keluarganya dan dia (akan) di tanya tentang kepemimpinannya." (Muttafaq 'Alaih). Allah Ta'ala berfirman, yang artinya: " Wahai orang-orang yang beriman jagalah diri kalian dan keluarg

Mencari Ilmu Sayyidina Ali K.W: 1. Ilmu adalah sebaik-baik perbendaharaan dan yang paling indahnya. Ia ringan dibawa, namun besar manfaatnya. Di tengah-tengah orang banyak ia indah, sedangkan dalam kesendirian ia menghibur. 2. Pelajarilah ilmu karena sesungguhnya ia hiasan bagi orang kaya dan penolong bagi orang fakir. Aku tidaklah mengatakan, “Sesung­guhnya ia mencari dengan ilmu,” tetapi “ilmu menyeru kepada qand 'ah (kepuasan).” 3. Umur itu terlalu pendek untuk mempelajari segala hal yang baik untuk dipelajari. Akan tetapi, pelajarilah ilmu yang paling penting, kemudian yang penting, dan begitulah seterusnya secara berurutan. 4. Janganlah engkau memperlakukan secara umum orang yang telah memberimu pengetahuan, tetapi perlakukanlah dia seperti orang-­orang yang khusus. Dan ketahuilah bahwa Allah memiliki orang-­orang yang dititipi-Nya rahasia-rahasia tersembunyi dan melarang mereka menyebarkan rahasia-rahasia-Nya itu. Ingatlah ucapan se­orang laki-laki yang sale

Pada suatu hari, ketika sepasang suami isteri duduk makan. Diruang tamu, datang seorang pengemis berpakaian lusuh meminta belas kasihan mereka. "Tolonglah Encik ,saya lapar ,sejak semalam tidak menjamah sesuap nasi." Dengan muka bengis,si suami sambil menjeling isteri yang cantik terus menghalau dan menengking si pengemis itu . Dalam hatinya berkata "Aku membina perniagaan hingga berjaya bukan untuk orang lain, tapi untuk diri dan keluargaku." Si isteri tidak dapat berbuat apa-apa dengan sikap suaminya walaupun dalam hatinya ada niat untuk bersedekah. Beberapa tahun kemudian, perniagaan si suami jatuh muflis dan dia menjadi miskin. Dia terus menceraikan isterinya kerana tidak mahu isterinya turut menderita sepertinya. Setahun kemudian, isterinya yang masih cantik itu berkahwin pula dengan lelaki lain. Pada suatu hari, sedang si isteri dan suami barunya mengadap makanan, tiba-tiba seorang pengemis mengetuk pintu sambil meminta belas kasiha

Memahami maksud takdir Allah. Mana mungkin kita mengelakkan daripada diuji kerana itu adalah takdir Allah SWT. Yang mampu kita buat hanyalah meningkatkan tahap kebergantungan kita kepada Allah di samping berusaha sedaya upaya menyelesaikan masalah itu. Ungkapan yang terkenal: We can’t direct the wind but we can adjust our sail – kita tidak mampu mengawal arah tiupan angin, kita hanya mampu mengawal kemudi pelayaran kita. Kemudi dalam pelayaran kehidupan kita hati. Hati yang bersifat bolak-balik (terutamanya bila diuji) hanya akan tenang bila kita beriman kepada Allah – yakin kepada kasih-sayang, keampunan dan sifat pemurah-Nya. Dalam apa jua takdir yang ditimpakan-Nya ke atas kita adalah bermaksud baik sekalipun kelihatan negatif. Baik dan buruk hanya pada pandangan kita yang terbatas, namun pada pandangan-Nya yang Maha luas, semua yang ditakdirkan ke atas hamba-Nya pasti bermaksud baik. Tidak salah untuk kita menyelesaikan masalah yang menimpa (bahkan kita dituntut untuk berbuat demi

Seven productive habits to develop you spiritually We should aim to develop the following seven spiritually productive activities into our habits so that we can hopefully continue benefitting from them throughout our lives. These activities are the spiritual ‘bread and butter’ of a Muslim. To develop them as habits is the essence of embarking on a journey towards achieving the love of Allah and constantly increasing your Iman, Insha Allah: 1) Pray the Sunnah prayers It’s easier to just pray the obligatory prayers and rush out of the mosque! However, when we realize the rewards we’re missing from not praying Sunnah prayers, we will never leave them. There’s only one way of getting yourself to pray these Sunnah prayers constantly: Get into the habit of praying them! They’ll soon become a part and parcel of your Salah and your Salah will feel incomplete without performing these Sunnah prayers. 2) Remembrance of Allah after Salah How long does it take to recite the supplications afte

ayat5: "maka sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan ada kemudahan.. ayat6; "sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan ada kemudahan" Sesungguhnya kesembuhan itu milik Allah. Kata-kata yang telah dijadikan perangsang bagi memotivasikan diri sendiri dan insan lain yang sedang sakit dalam menghadapi keadaan kesihatan yang tidak mengizinkan. Begitulah antara ujian kecil berupa penyakit yang dihidapi oleh kebanyakan insan yang telah dipilih oleh Allah sebagai bukti kasih sayang-Nya, kafarah dosa dari-Nya, dan peningkatan darjat hambaNya. Sesungguhnya penyakit yang diturunkan oleh Allah ini banyak menguji ketahanan fizikal dan mental, kerana tempoh tersebut merupakan titik tolak ke arah kesedaran bahawa kematian akan mengejar kita bila-bila masa sama ada bersedia atau tidak. "Di mana jua kamu berada, maut akan mendapatkan kamu (bila sampai ajal), sekalipun kamu berada dalam benteng-benteng yang tinggi lagi kukuh." [al-Nisaa' 4:78] Mengingati saat menziarahi jenazah suami kepada se