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Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “If somebody reproaches you and makes you feel ashamed of any of your defects, do not make him feel ashamed of any of his defects.” [Abu Daud]

Usually, when somebody points out one of our shortcomings, we immediately become defensive and start finding faults with them. But the advice of our beloved Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam), is that we should listen quietly and evaluate what we are being told. If there is something we can improve about ourselves, it is only to our own ... See Moreadvantage to do so. If the criticism is unjustified, then we are rewarded for our patience and good behaviour in not retaliating. The angels will take care of defending our honour. Starting a counter attack opens the door for Shaytaan to come in and take over.

Once Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq (radi Allahu anhu) was sitting with the Prophet (sal allahu alaihi wa sallam) when a man came and started to abuse Hazrat Abu Bakr. Hazrat Abu Bakr remained silen…

Its ok not to be alright

You can never tell what people are thinking and feeling unless they tell you, and usually they lie.

You ask them, ‘whats wrong?’ and they say ‘nothing’.
You accept this because it’s easier than digging for the truth.

People smile when they want to cry, they laugh when they want to scream and shout.

They pretend like nothing is wrong because they don’t want to face the truth.

Things aren’t always rainbows and butterflies, sometimes you gotta scream and cry your anger and sadness to the world, because you can only hold it in for so long before something in you snaps.

So when you want to cry, cry. When you want to scream, scream.
Don’t hide behind fake smiles, it’s okay to not be alright.