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..dugaan...gempabumi di yogjakarkata..

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Semalam menonton tv indosiar...melihat betapa hebatnya saudara-saudara kita di Indonesia menghadapi dugaan Allah...APAKAH HIKMAH DISEBALIKNYA..Hanya Allah yang maha mengetahui....

..TOUCHING...DAN SENTUHAN......

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Touching is a vital human need.
Studies have shown that without touching, many animals - including humans - will die in childhood.
Being caressed also lowers blood pressure and releases natural opiates in the brain, as well as the chemical oxytocin........., which is essential for human pair-bonding.
Touch has the power to COMFORT and SUPPORT,
..... to PROTECT...... and ENCOURAGE,
...... to RELAX.................. and, of course,........ to AROUSE, Every couple knows their sex life may have dry periods,............... but our need for....... physical affection never changes.

Honesty.....

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Most people are actually a bit dishonest about honesty.Susah nak jujur...dan kita tak boleh tak jujur.....
…….. By that I mean, most people will tell you they want to be told the truth,……… but stop and think about it for a second………… and you'll reason for yourself that it just isn't so. When a woman says, "Do you think this dress makes me look fat"……….
,atau " Ayang gemuk tak"
atau "cantik tak rambut ayang ni"
Do you really think she wants to hear the truth?.......... She's standing there in front of a mirror while she's asking you. .You can bet if she thought it made her look fat, you'd never get asked for your opinion.If you can't figure out that she wants to hear the words "Don't be ridiculous, you look gorgeous", then your communication system isn't working.
You sebenarnya tak FAHAM..ACTUALLY yang dimaksudkan adalah.. "I'm feeling a bit vulnerable, tell me I'm still attractive.dan saya masih menarik da…

PENTING TAK.....SEX...DALAM HUBUNGAN...?

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Last night we have an unofficial forum...PENTING TAK SEX IN RELATIONSHIP....

Ada yang pro dan ada kont......

Ali....."true love is all about being loving and caring for each other........ Sex is a part of love,......... but what will you do of sex,..... if your partner doesn't understand you....... or care for you.
Its good to have a healthy sexual relationship............. but that's not everything. .
A relationship would last only if its based on respect and love."(refering to sex or relationship?)
Marzuki....."Sex is important brader.....sangat important........ but it shouldn't become a necessity and the only reason for you to be close to your partner.
A relationship can flourish only if it involves mutual understanding and faith from both the partners.

Teruna...."Sex is also necessary..... as it helps strengthen the ties and helps you get closer to each other.......But, according to me, its not a physical relationship............. but a relationship which…

...loving....

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The truth is loving another person is not complicated.It is the most natural and spontaneous thing we do……………………. Infants and children know how to love perfectly and no one has to tell them how to do it….. When you look at adult?................ relationships, it would seem that we have lost our natural ability to love, but in fact that isnt the caseat all..What has happened iswe have erected barriers or obstacles that get in the way……..………….. Worse yet, we adults have anesthetize our true feelings in an effort to ward off the very thing we deeply desireWhen you stop criticizing yourself, you will stop criticizing others; when you are kinder to yourself, you will be kinder to others.
anger.... fear,...... guilt,...... pride,........... and shame......... are strong barriers to ...........love and happiness.They are insidious and pernicious emotions that.......... create illusions and.................... distortions in our thoughts and actions.We create these emotions when our standard…

..GUYS....YOUR MISTAKES ARE......(email from friend)

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15 MISTAKES GUYS MAKE WHEN HAVING SEX1) COMPLAINING Guys like it when girls show off their nice ass. So, why do guys complain when a girl is wearing tight pants? As long as they can get their pants off, I really don't see a problem. You know you'r gonna get SOME, so just chill out and savor each second. 2)WHEN GIRLS GO DOWN HALF-WAY Guys try to force a girls head do! wn when she's simply trying to tease the guy. You know...get MR.HAPPY all the way up before she has to try and suck on MR.LIMP 3)CHOCKING THE CHICKEN Why do guys make girls do this 4 them? He can do this at home whenever he's NOT getting any, not when he's about to get the real deal! Remember guys.... it brings absolutely NO pleasure to us females and we do get bored with jerking you guys off.4)HAIR PULLING Yes, it's true that some females like a little bit of pain, but not when your ripping the hair out of her head! Take it easy. 5)PANTING During sex we females know that guys do get tired, and we …

...work for it.....

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People aren't entitled to happiness.People have to work for happiness just as they have to work for a successful career
................. and in the very same way they have to work and save for a house,........ a car,....... a stereo,...................... retirement,............................. or even to maintain friendships.

In our daydreams,............ we'd all like the most important and most difficult to achieve things in our lives to be handed to us.
Many of us sit around,...................................... look out the window................................. and dream of being famous.........., admired,.................. rich,......................... and super successful.Yet, in reality, that just doesn't happen to most of us.However, even if it did just happen to us overnight,......... would we really be able to appreciate it the same way as if we'd strived and worked hard for it?............ Most likely not. Therefore, it's in the process of striving f…

....ones that care...

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Take this quiz:
1. Name the five wealthiest people in Malaysia.

2. Name the last five Malaysia cup football winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss Malaysia contest.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last winners for best actor actress in Malaysia....
SUSAH NAK INGATKAN !!!!!!!!

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday.
These are no second-rate achievers.
They are the best in their fields..........,,,, But the applause dies.
........... Awards tarnish............. Achievements are forgotten............... Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school dan memberi motivasi kpd anda......

2. Name three friends who have helped you masa you susah dan menolong kamu...... 3. Name five people yang telah memotivasikan anda dan menjadi inspirasi kpd anda.....
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel, ap…

SAMBUTAN HARI GURU......

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memotong kek hari guru.....

menyampai ucapan....hari guru....





Sebagai YDP PIBG....saya di jemput utk merasmikan perayaan hari guru peringkat sekolah di Sekolah SK Dtk Traoh Kota Samarahan......

Semasa memberi ucapan.....saya telah memetik surat yang ditulis Abraham Lincoln kpd guru anaknya........

"He will have to learn...i know,that all men are not JUST..all men are not TRUE..
..but teach him also that for every SCOUNDREL..there is a HERO.
..that for every SELFISH POLITICIAN..there is DEDICATED LEADER...

Teach him that for every ENEMY there is a FRIEND....

It will take time,i know, but teach him if you can that A DOLLAR EARNED IS OF FAR MORE VALUE THAN FIVE EARNED...

Teach him to LEARN TO LOSE AND ALSO ENJOYED WINNING...

STEER HIM AWAY FROM ENVY...if you can teach him the SECRET OF QUIET LAUGHTER.

Let him learn early that BULLIES ARE EASIEST TO LICK.....

Teach him if you can, THE WONDER OF BOOKS..and also give him quite sometimes to PONDER THE ETERNAL MY…

..Farzana menyanyi...

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Farzana menyanyi....sempena Hari Guru.....

...PILIHANRAYA...KWS MELAYU.....

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(pilihan raya di Sarawak.....tak kelihatan pun poster pembangkang )



Pilihanraya utk Dewan Undangan Negeri Sarwak baru saja selesai......so masa utk para politikus utk muhasabah diri...tengok balik kat mana silap dan mencari ruang utk membaiki diri......yang pentingnya....menunaikan janji yang telah ditaburkan....NANTI KENA TANYA DI AKHIRAT.


Satu perkara yang menarik perhatian...ialah pengurangan majoriti dikawasan adun melayu....

...N4....Pantai Damai(Dr Rahman Junaidi).........majoriti 2164.......(3315(2001) )

...N5..Demak Laut(Dr Abg Draup).....majoriti 3605.....(3845 (2001) )

....N8..Satok (dtk Abg Jo)..majoriti 2798.....(2859(2001) )

...N7..Tupong (Dtk Daud)..majoriti 4572...(4834(2001) )

...N14..Asajaya(Karim hamzah)..majoriti (5063)..(3665(2001) )

.....N15...Muara Tuang ..(Dtk Sri Ali Mahmud)....majoriti 6327......(9708(2001) )

......N20 Sadong Jaya....(Dtk Wan Wahab)...majoriti 88........(2901)(2001)

......N21 simunjan (noordin)...majoriti 3350…

..Law of attraction....

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I begin to wonder how it relates to the Law of Attraction which says, ?..........You get what you focus on.?

If an individual feels important......................, he will naturally attract others who agree.
The more people surrounding him who agree, the more important he feels. ......This leads to enhanced self-esteem, generated both internally and externally.
On the other hand, when an individual feels unimportant, he also attracts others who agree....... His desire to feel important becomes increasingly urgent as he notices that people are treating him as unimportant.

The more he focuses on being treated poorly, the stronger his urge for importance. This often turns into frustration and eventually anger.
The more he demands to be treated as important, the less people listen to him. It is a demonstration of the worst possible consequences of the Law of Attraction.

So my friends....... how do we make sure that our need to feel important is met?....... Ironically, it's by treating oth…

..YOU AND YOUR ENVIRONMENT.....

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(PUBLIC TOILET ....KALAU CAM NI....BESTKAN)


Did you ever walk into TANDAS AWAM kat mana-mana tempat kat Malaysia ni.....apa komen anda?......ya...lah ...ada yang best ..ada yang so-so......dan ada yang terrruukk........but if you are so DESPERATE......You have to carry on...

DID YOU NOTICE SOMETHING?
.......by the time you habis melakukan business you ...or you left 5minutes later....it didnt smell quite so bad..kan?
.......What if you teraccidentally locked yourself in there for an hour?.......U MIGHT BE SAYING...."WHAT SMELL"

MORAL OF THE STORY.....WE GET USED TO OUR ENVIRONMENT.......


......live with miserable people...you become miserable....and you think it's normal...

......work with critical people....you become critical....and you think it 's normal.....

.....your friends tell lies..it worries you in the begining...eventually dan lama-lama you akan get used to people telling lies.......HANG OUT THEM LONG ENOUGH AN…

...anak di mata ku......

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......anak-anak dimata ku........
Setiap orang akan merasa bahagia apabila dikurniakan anak.
Namun disebalik kebahagiaan ini tersimpan tanggungjawab yang

amat berat yang harus dipikul.

Anak amat bererti pada ibubapa, antaranya:
1. Anak sebagai rahmat Allah SWT........
2. Anak sebagai amanat Allah SWT........
3. Anak sebagai harta yang tergadai....(bila-bila masa Allah boleh ambil balik...)
4. Anak sebagai penguji keimanan dan kesabaran........
5. Anak sebagai alat untuk beramal.....(mengajar kita tentang kehidupan...)
6. Anak sebagai saham di akhirat.....(ingatkan...tiga perkara yang yang kekal bersama kita...dan anak yang solleh dan sollehah saja....)
7. Anak sebagai sumber kebahagiaan.....(renungkan muka anak kita masa mereka tidur...u can feel the love......)
8. Anak sebagai tempat bergantung di hari tua....(insyaAllah)
9. Anak sebagai penyambung cita-cita.....(menjadikan mereka dan kita dekat denganNya)
10. Anak …

...happy birthday mami......and happy mother's day

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Walaupun program sangat ketat for the past 1 week....saya mesti sediakan masa untuk celebrate Harijadi Mami...dan Mother's day......
Farzana dan Maizatul telipon 2 hingga 3 kali bertanya ...jadi tak makan dan celebrate kat luar.........
That's the way anak-anak nak tunjuk yang mereka sayang kat mami mereka......

....and they really enjoyed themselves....
....yang bestnya Mami dia org yang birthday dan mother's day...tapi mereka yang mintak hadiah utk dia org......

...doktor percuma.......

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last saturday and sunday......pergi ke Sematan....sebuah pekan kecil di timur Sarawak bersama Kasuadi dan Teruna....Menjalankan program "doktor Percuma" anjuran Ikatan Graduan Melayu Sarawak.....
Letih tapi rasa satisfied bila berkhidmat dgn org kampung yang kebanyakannya nelayan dan petani.....

Booohooong......

we lie to get things we want.........., for personal gain.......... or to stay out of trouble.
We tell "white lies"(bohong sunat) to protect other's feelings,
.................. and then there are the pathological liars among us,.............. the people who feel compelled to lie no matter what..dan cakap bohong, org kata dah jadi darah daging......
So, with liars all around us (don't lie -- we ALL lie at one point or another, even those "little white lies" count), it's imperative to know the signs that someone may be lying to you.

Seven Common Signs of Lying1.No eye contact.
Generally, if someone is lying they will not look you in the eye atau dia org suka pakai cermin mata gelap), at least during a certain part of the conversation. Normally dan selalunya, people make eye contact for at least half of a conversation,........ so anything less than this could be suspicious.
Tapi hati-hati...dia dah jadi pembohong professional...... there are some people who …

...JENAMA NASIONAL.....

Orang tua-tua kat kampung...mempunyai jenama khas utk barang tertentu yang boleh kita labelkan sebagai jenama nasional....and semua kita akan faham apa yang dimaksudkan.....

1.Jenama ubat nasional utk sakit kepala...
......panadol...

2.Jenama ubat nasional utk kepala pusing,giddiness....
......minyak cap Kapak...

3.Jenama nasional utk sakit otot dan pinggang...
......Tiger balm...
......Minyak Gamat..(semua sakit sapu ngan minyak gamat)

4.Tong Sampah Nasional....
....Kat bandar...JalanRaya..
....kat kampung...sungai...(rumah atau kampung melayu kat sarawak kebanyakan tepi sungai)

5.Jamban Nasional...
...kat kampung(ada beberapa tempat)
1.tepi sungai....jamban gantung....bertenggek tepi perahu..
2.tepi jetti...dikampung kampung melayu di sarawak..
3.Tepi Pokok...Di akar pokok yang besar(org sarawak panggil BANIR)

6.Jenama nasional utk minyak rambut..
......brycream..

7.Jenama nasional utk ubat gigi..
.....Apa-apa jenis pun dipanggil...colgate..

8.Makanan nasional …

...lagi alasan kebangsaan..national excuses....

Alasan-alasan yang selalu digunakan...bertaraf kebangsaan....semua org selalu guna...

1.Alasan lambat datang meeting.....atau lambat "punch card"
........traffic jam...
..........Tayar pancit...
..........hari hujan.

2.Alasan utk mendapat cuti sakit(mc)..
....cirit-birit,food poisoning..(doktor tahu you all tipu...)

3.Alasan orang perempuan utk dapat cuti sakit(mc)..
.....Sakit datang haid...(tak kan haid 2 ,3 kali sebulan)

4.Alasan utk rambut gugur..
....selalu makan mee segera..

5.Alasan tak hendak jawap telepon(bila tengok number Bini tertera d handfon)
...tengah meeting,tak boleh jwb phone
...."tepon I "silent"...tak dengar..
......Tepon tertinggal dalam kereta....

6.Alasan tak hendak pergi dgn kawan makan kat gerai atau kedai makan...sebab tak ada duit atau takut nak belanja orang lain....
......sorry...i tengah diet..
.....i masih kenyang..

7.Alasan diberi kalau org perempuan reject dia...
.....alaaa...aku bukan hendak sangat dia...
.....dia ingat…

National excuses utk menolak sex (perempuan)

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Alasan -alasan yang selalu diberi isteri/perempuan utk menolak ajakan suami untuk melakukan sex.
(hasil pertanyaan dan borak-borak dgn kawan-kawan sambil pekena Tongkat Ali Tarik)

1."kepala berdenyutlah bang....pening kepala ni".....

2."Relax dulu bang....anak-anak belum tidur lagi"

3."Maid ada kat luar tu.....nanti dia dengar pulak ayang menjerit"

4."mak ada....(mak mentua kat rumah)"

5."sorry sayang....lupa makan pill"(pill perancang)

6."tengah subur ni.....karang menjadi pulak'

7."kalau u tak pakai kondom....tak nak main"

8."sorry sayang....esok ada appointment dgn doktor"

9."mengantuk lah"

10."perut i memulas dan rasa kembung..."

11."tak ada mood lah sayang"

12."sorry...make up belum dibersihkan..."

13."..belum bersih betul...masih ada darah sikit..."

14."belum dapat sembahyang lagi..."

DENGAN ALASAN TERSEBUT...TERPAKSALAH PARA MEMELUK BANTAl.....

.....KILL THE WEEDS....

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When a Gardener plants grass and notices that weeds have sprouted amongst the good grass, s/he goes to work to kill the weeds.They have to destroy the weeds or else it will destroy the good grass.You must do the same. ……Destroy the weeds (negative thoughts) that are growing inside of you…….. before they kill off the good grass (positive thoughts).Always be mindful of what you are thinking ……….and the affect that it will have on your life…………… When you notice a negative thought—kill it, before it kills you.ACTION POINT:Let’s do some spring cleaning this week.Let’s become aware of thoughts that we have that are like weeds and can destroy our efforts to change our life.Let’s pull out the weed wacker and the weed killer and destroy them whenever they rear their ugly heads.This week, we will only have positive, life empowering thoughts that move us closer to our goals.And we will destroy negative thoughts that hold us back. Can you do that for yourself this week?Brother……. I know you can. …

....it's about a little person.....

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The picture is that of a 21-week-old unborn baby named Samuel Alexander Armas, who is being operated on by surgeon named Joseph Bruner.The baby was diagnosed with spina bifida and would not survive if removed from his mother's womb. Little Samuel's mother, Julie Armas, is an obstetrics nurse in Atlanta. She knew of Dr. Bruner's remarkable surgical procedure. Practicing at VanderbiltUniversityMedicalCenter in Nashville, he performs these special operations while the baby is still in the womb.During the procedure, the doctor removes the uterus via C-section and makes a small incision to operate on the baby. As Dr. Bruner completed the surgery on Samuel, the little guy reached his tiny, but fully developed hand through the incision and firmly grasped the surgeon's finger. Dr. Bruner was reported as saying that when his finger was grasped, it was the most emotional moment of his life, and that for an instant during the procedure he was just frozen, totally immobile.The pho…

judgement or forgiveness

BE IN JUDGMENT OR FORGIVENESS

In every situation.....dalam kehidupan seharian kita......, you may choose to judge who is right(siapa org baik ,alim atau pura-pura alim), who is wrong(siapa yg jahat ,tak hormat kat org...tak bertamadun)
........, what is good,........... and what is bad.
This is how we are taught. ........
......................The entire legal system is built upon placing blame and judgment.
........... Daily we are told on television who is good and who is bad....buka saja TV...banyak cerita-cerita atau drama-drama melayu yang mengajak dan mengajar kita tentang baik dan buruk...... ..... whom to praise and whom to hate.

The alternative is to choose discernment and forgiveness.
Yesssss, we must decide whom to work for........., whom to marry,....... whom to live with,..... and so forth.

But my friends........ appearances can be deceiving,kita mudah tertipu dgn rupa dan keadaan seseorang........
Discernment is a quiet feeling inside that tells you when it is safe to move tow…

"Dengarlah"...bila anak-anak menangis.......

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Mami nya merungut sambil memarahi angah dan farith....."sikit-sikit nak nangis...tak jumpa buku nangis...tak boleh buat homework nangis....cari dan cuba dulu...tak faham tanya..."

Yesss...sometime kita tak faham kenapa anak-anak menangis....dan boleh membuat kita tak tahan dan hilang kesabaran kita......
Anak kita menangis utk MELEGAKAN PERASAAN MEREKA....MELEPASKAN KERESAHAN....tetapi kadang-kadang cuma utk MENARIK PERHATIAN(attention's seeking behaviour)......dan yang bestnya dia org cuma hendakkan SOUND EFFECT nya jerr.

BAGAIMANAPUN DENGARILAH MEREKA......15-20 TAHUN DARI SEKARANG ANDA PULA AKAN MENANGIS APABILA RUMAH MULA SUNYI........
anak-anak pula sibuk mendengar tangisan anak mereka......

Beyond comprehension.......

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"Tak fahamlah....kenapa jadi macam ni"

"Dia org tak reti...tak faham...yang kita nak tolong dia org"

"Kita dah tolong tapi dia org ni tak reti nak berterimakasih...dan siap back stabbing pulak"

Ini adalah antara keluhan-keluhan yang sering kita dengar...yang selalu menjadi rungutan kawan-kawan....

Loook my friend......kita hanya a tiny complex human in a huge complex world.....it's all so unimagineably,fantastically strange that(u have to believe me) that we will never be able to understand everything.....yesss everything.Dan perkara ini applies at semua level in semua area of life........

Cuba tengok sekeliling kita.....there are likely to be a few things going on around you right now....that will and always remain just outside of your comprehension..betul tak????
Contoh.....
1........people will behave oddly.....and we wont understand...why.

2.......things will go atau jadi bagus,elok.....atau mejadi gagal..tak baik ,teruk and it wont make sense....dan kita…

Applause and appreciation.......

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The issue of appreciation is abig one....major thing to some of us.
Ahhhh...many of us feel that we are taken for granted.......the people we serve dont appereciate us...so why should we give them the best?
The answer for that........we have our INTEGRITY and STANDARD......and my friend ..we derive MEANING and SATISFACTION from doing a great job......

Brader......it doesnt matter whether or not anybody knows or appreciates what we do......we still have to do what's right.Allah maha mengetahui......

......we still have to be the best......

...whatever we do...it is about us...not them......and the most important thing this is about how much we care....not how much they care.

Yesss....we all know.....the desire to be appreciated is normal......tapi....brader..it is hard to find meaning if one craves for APPLAUSE.

A person who craves fo applause will focus on getting it....instead of meeting the needs of others.

Plisss ingat selalu.......people DONT always REMEMBER TO APPLAUD.
And one more t…

What's count in life.......

It's not about how many friends you have......... Or how many people call you......
....... Or how accepted or unaccepted you are.
.........Not about if you have plans this weekend.
......... Or if you're alone. It isn't about who your family is or how much money they have.
........... Or what kind of car you drive.
............... Or where you're sent to school.It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are.
......... Or what clothes you wear,
............what shoes you have on,
.............. or what kind of music you listen to.
................ It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, brown, or green.
....................Or if your skin is too light or too dark.It's not about what grades you get,
...............how smart you are,
............... how smart everyone else thinks you are,
...................or how smart standardized tests say you are.
.................Or if this teacher likes you,
.................or if this guy/girl likes you.
.............…

lessons....read carefully n think about it......

LESSON 1

A junior manager, a senior manager and their boss are on their way to a meeting. On their way through a park, they come across a wonder lamp.They rub the lamp and a ghost appears.

The ghost says, "Normally, one is granted three wishes but as you are three, I will allow one wish each"

So the eager senior manager shouted, "I want the first wish. I want to be in the Bahamas, on a fast boat and have no worries." Pfufffff, and he was gone.

Now the junior manager could not keep quiet and shouted "I want to be In Florida with beautiful girls, plenty of food and cocktails." Pfufffff, and he Was also gone.

The boss calmly said, "I want these two idiots back in the office after lunch at 12.35pm."

*MORAL OF THE STORY IS: " ALWAYS ALLOW THE BOSSES TO SPEAK FIRST"*


LESSON 2

Standing in front of a shredder with a piece of paper in his hand.

"Listen," said the CEO, "this is a very sensitive and important document,and my secretary has …

kawan....sahabat(dari email seorang kawan...)

Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda yang bermaksud: Sesungguhnya perumpamaan sahabat yang baik dan sahabat yang jahat adalah seperti penjaja kesturi dan tukang hembus api. Penjaja kesturi mungkin akan memberikannya kepada atau kamu membeli darinya atau sekurang-kurangnya kamu dapati bauan yang harum. Dan tukang hembus api akan membakar kainmu atau kamu mendapati bau yang busuk. (Syaikhan) Pengertian Dalam hadis ini Rasulullah membuat perumpamaan berhubung dengan kawan atau sahabat yang baik sama seperti penjual bauan. Siapa yang datang kepadanya akan beroleh bauan tersebut, sama ada dibelinya atau diberinya percuma ataupun sekurang-kurangnya bauannya yang harum semerbak. Sedangkan kawan yang jahat akan membahayakan orang yang mendekatinya sekalipun dia tidak terlibat sama dalam kejahatan tetapi tidak terlepas dari tuduhan orang kepadanya.

Kesimpulan.......

Pandai-pandailah memilih sahabat........
....... berkawanlah dengan orang baik-baik yang dapat memandu ke arah kebaikan.
.........kawan ketaw…