Booohooong......

we lie to get things we want.........., for personal gain.......... or to stay out of trouble.
We tell "white lies"(bohong sunat) to protect other's feelings,
.................. and then there are the pathological liars among us,.............. the people who feel compelled to lie no matter what..dan cakap bohong, org kata dah jadi darah daging......

So, with liars all around us (don't lie -- we ALL lie at one point or another, even those "little white lies" count), it's imperative to know the signs that someone may be lying to you.

Seven Common Signs of Lying

1. No eye contact.
Generally, if someone is lying they will not look you in the eye atau dia org suka pakai cermin mata gelap), at least during a certain part of the conversation.

Normally dan selalunya, people make eye contact for at least half of a conversation,........ so anything less than this could be suspicious.
Tapi hati-hati...dia dah jadi pembohong professional...... there are some people who will berusaha bersungguh....... to make eye contact with you even if they're lying........ simply to make you think they're not.

2. Change in voice.
A change in the pitch of a person's tone, or a lot of stammering (umm, ah),........ or throat clearing could indicate a lie.

3. Unusual body language.
If a person taps their foot a lot,
......fidgets with their hands,
........ raises their shoulders,
......... turns away from you
........... brings their hand to their face (to touch their chin or nose, etc.) -
in other words,........ if they act nervous or uncomfortable -- it could mean they're telling a lie. .
..........Also watch out for blushing (or becoming pale)............. and increased blinking.

4. Something sounds fishy.
Making statements that contradict each other,.........are inconsistent or.............. don't sound quite right are usually part of a lie.

5. Overly defensive.
Sometimes when a person is lying they will become extremely defensive,.......
........ refusing to answer any questions .................and even accusing you of lying.....
This may mean they have something to hide.

6. Changes subject easily.
If someone is lying and you change the subject(tukar topic selalu)....., chances are high that they'll go right along with it.
A person telling the truth, however, will likely ask why you changed the subject and want to go back to it.

7. Humor or sarcasm.
A guilty person will often try to change the subject using humor or sarcasm.