judgement or forgiveness

BE IN JUDGMENT OR FORGIVENESS

In every situation.....dalam kehidupan seharian kita......, you may choose to judge who is right(siapa org baik ,alim atau pura-pura alim), who is wrong(siapa yg jahat ,tak hormat kat org...tak bertamadun)
........, what is good,........... and what is bad.

This is how we are taught. ........
......................The entire legal system is built upon placing blame and judgment.
........... Daily we are told on television who is good and who is bad....buka saja TV...banyak cerita-cerita atau drama-drama melayu yang mengajak dan mengajar kita tentang baik dan buruk...... ..... whom to praise and whom to hate.

The alternative is to choose discernment and forgiveness.
Yesssss, we must decide whom to work for........., whom to marry,....... whom to live with,..... and so forth.

But my friends........ appearances can be deceiving,kita mudah tertipu dgn rupa dan keadaan seseorang........

Discernment is a quiet feeling inside that tells you when it is safe to move toward a situation or person, or to move away.
It does not carry any judgement, just a sense of what is best in the present moment.

"Bad behavior" is often a cry for help. That one needs forgiveness,........ and the opportunity to make restitution.........., to become whole once again. .

Brader.......You can offer forgiveness without condoning an action, and staying with that one.

You can choose to forgive others because you realize that you are just forgiving an aspect of yourself.