Honesty.....

Most people are actually a bit dishonest about honesty.Susah nak jujur...dan kita tak boleh tak jujur.....

…….. By that I mean, most people will tell you they want to be told the truth,……… but stop and think about it for a second………… and you'll reason for yourself that it just isn't so.

When a woman says, "Do you think this dress makes me look fat"……….
,atau " Ayang gemuk tak"
atau "cantik tak rambut ayang ni"

Do you really think she wants to hear the truth?.......... She's standing there in front of a mirror while she's asking you. .

You can bet if she thought it made her look fat, you'd never get asked for your opinion.

If you can't figure out that she wants to hear the words "Don't be ridiculous, you look gorgeous", then your communication system isn't working.

You sebenarnya tak FAHAM..ACTUALLY yang dimaksudkan adalah.. "I'm feeling a bit vulnerable, tell me I'm still attractive.dan saya masih menarik dan cantik......"dan yang paling dia hendak dengar ialah " u masih cantik di mata i"

When a man asks a woman if she thinks that penis size matters, do you think that he really wants to know the truth? Of course not.

He simply wants to be reassured that he is adequate.and dia lah yang paling baik ,best" Main"

Honesty isn't just a license to go around indiscriminately trashing other people's feelings.
So to review... Honesty...sure, probably the best policy, but use with caution.

Its always easier to remember what you've said if you tell the truth,…… and people are more apt to understand what you mean if you say what you really mean...and mean it.

SEDIKIT TIPS:
If someone asks you a question that you really don't want to answer,............................................................ just ask him or her why they want to know....................... You'll be surprised how many people will just drop it at that,..................... and ...........................you won't even have to lie.

JAWAB SUSAH , TAK JAWAB SUSAH......DIA ORG KATA, KITA TAK PRIHATIN....