PENTING TAK.....SEX...DALAM HUBUNGAN...?

Last night we have an unofficial forum...PENTING TAK SEX IN RELATIONSHIP....

Ada yang pro dan ada kont......

Ali....."true love is all about being loving and caring for each other........ Sex is a part of love,......... but what will you do of sex,..... if your partner doesn't understand you....... or care for you.
Its good to have a healthy sexual relationship............. but that's not everything. .
A relationship would last only if its based on respect and love."(refering to sex or relationship?)
Marzuki....."Sex is important brader.....sangat important........ but it shouldn't become a necessity and the only reason for you to be close to your partner.
A relationship can flourish only if it involves mutual understanding and faith from both the partners.

Teruna...."Sex is also necessary..... as it helps strengthen the ties and helps you get closer to each other.......But, according to me, its not a physical relationship............. but a relationship which is based on trust,........ that lasts longer and............ stands strong in testing times."

Kanda....."For me compatibility is what matters. ......Understanding each other......... and being with each other is what love is all about.
It doesn't mean that if you don't have sex, then you don't love your partner.(dah tua ...macamtu..lah)
Kadri....."The love you have for your partner should be so strong that you long to talk to him and be with him always.
Sex is important but its not everything.

Mat...."when you're old,........... then you won't get the urge or desire to have sex and .............its trust that would count more that time........................... It's trust that helps build the bond better."

Wong....""I think sex is very important and helps a couple bond together. But somehow, couples are not open with each other and prefer not to talk about sex.

Hamdan.."A healthy sexual relationship can keep a marriage going strong and steady. It helps in communicating with your partner............... Couples should pay attention to their sexual lives and ...................discuss with each other their likes and dislikes.
The better your sexual life, the better will be your marriage."
Bujang....."i think sex is most important in a relationship at least for a man.
Men are genetically programmed to give more importance to physical needs than emotional needs while it's the opposite for women.
So if a man is not physically fulfilled..........., he might try to get it fulfilled by other means which of course is not good for the woman.

Kasuadi..." I guess both needs are important..............., but men give more importance to physical than emotional needs"

Brahim...".Being married .......................I can say that women do look for love and how receptive she is to love-making has a lot to do with the way her husband treats her. "


Zam....." Women take longer to decide......................... and bring heart ahead of passion.
men I guess love sex as such without heart involved in it and it's also the duty of a wife to understand and satisfy that need.

Myself....."I agree that sex is important in life but not very.......... i think trust and mutual understanding are the factors which r more important..........
.Bond and trust between the couple increases when there is an active sex-life.................
There is a limitation of time for an active sex-life. Enjoy and make the most of it while it lasts.sex is base of our life. it is also out of need. With sex we can say our life is complete and without it we feel something is mising in our life.



So......I think relationship is depend on our thinking. When u think positive all problems go far-away from u. I think in our life all things r depends on our thinking....... WHAT SAY U BRADER..........?