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kesalahan ..dan..kebaikan

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Kesalahan dan Kebaikan

''Ingatlah olehmu dua perkara, yaitu kesalahanmu kepada orang lain dan kebaikan orang lain kepadamu.

Lupakan dua perkara, yaitu kebaikanmu pada orang lain dan kesalahan orang lain kepadamu.''

Nilai seseorang bukanlah berada pada penampilan dirinya, bukan pula dari pekerjaan dan harta benda yang telah dikumpulkan.

Seseorang dinilai bukan dari kursi yang diduduki, bukan pula berapa pangkat yang disandang dan tanda jasa yang melekat pada dadanya

Seorang itu dinilai dari budi pekerti luhur yang menghiasi perilakunya.

Mengapa kita harus mengingat kesalahan yang telah dikerjakan pada orang lain? Dengan mengingatnya, akan menimbulkan perasaan menyesal dalam diri kita, perasaan yang mendorong untuk bertaubat kepada Allah, kemudian berusaha memperbaikinya dengan meminta maaf dan tidak akan mengulanginya.

Mengingat kebaikan orang lain terhadap kita akan mendorong kita selalu berbuat baik kepada orang lain. Kehidupan tidak akan terbina dengan baik tanpa kebaikan …

Celebrity Collage by MyHeritage

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you give it..it comes to you

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HAPPINESS can be spontaneous and natural but it also requires nurturing and development.Ia perlu di pupuk dan dibajai..
Seperti tanaman ianya perlu di siram

What brings happiness to many of us is the simple sharing of our lives, done with pure love ,penuh kasih-sayang dan sentiasa ingat dan patuh kpd Allah...

People are always happy when they are with the ones they love, especially in the absence of conflict.

Some have little material wealth,kehidupan yang sederhana but are happy.

The quality of happiness depends on how receptive we are internally...atau adakah kita sentiasa berasa syukur kpdNya atau kita mempunyai citarasa yang tinngi...nafsu yng tak terkawal....

Small things like a gardening...playing tenis or golf can make us happy.... or a child’s smile,senyuman anak-anak balik dari sekolah.. can make us happy.or senyuman isteri atau suami can make us happy.....


If your happiness spills over into the lives of others and uplifts them, you can consider that true happiness.Tiada yang l…

you cannot please everyone...

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Email from a friend ,utk kita kongsi bersama...

You cannot please everyone



A MAN said to Al-Hasan Al-Basri: “People sit around you so they may find fault with you!” So he replied, “Indeed, I encouraged my soul to aspire for Paradise, so it aspired for it. Then I encouraged it to aspire for protection from Hellfire, so it aspired for it. Then I encouraged it to aspire for redemption from the people, but I didn’t find a way to that. Indeed people were not pleased with their Creator though He provides for them, so how can they be pleased with another creation like themselves?” (Al-Bidaya wal-Nihaya, 9/318)

Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) said: “O my Lord, the people say things about me which are not (i.e. not true)! So Allah revealed to him: ‘O Musa, I did not make that (privilege) for Myself, so how can I make it the case for you?’ (Al-Adab Al-Shar’iyyah by Ibn Muflih, 1/38)

Malik Bin Dinar said: “Since I have known (the reality of) people, I have not taken delight in their praise nor hav…

simpan dalam hati...

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just do it..

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Love,.... without concern over whether you'll be loved in return. You will be.


Speak honestly and from the heart,.... without concern for what others will think...... They will respect you for it.


Connect with and explore your deepest purpose, without concern for how you will express it.......... You will find opportunities in every circumstance.


Diligently and effectively put forth your best effort, without concern for the result.......... It will be worth your while.

..the heart.

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ALLAH’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said:


“There is a lump of flesh in the body – if it is set right and made good, the entire body becomes good and healthy; but if it becomes diseased, the entire body becomes diseased. Remember well – it is the heart.”



Source: Al-Bukhary

letih..

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Lately rasa letih..stress....setelah reflex balik,didapati diri ini tak pernah bercuti dan berehat sebenar-benarnya berehat...

Berkerja setiap hari ,dari pagi sampai malam..kecuali Sunday.
Sunday reserve untuk pergi jemputan kenduri...

Bila nak bercuti ni..? Nak rehat tanpa memikirkan kerja?