Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Isteri Saya Hilang...






Seorang suami berjumpa polis untuk melaporkan kehilangan isterinya yang keluar seketika untuk membeli gula, namun tidak pulang-pulang.


"Sudah berapa lama isteri encik keluar?" soal polis.


"Saya tidak pasti pula. Pagi tadi atau tengah hari kot."


"Dia pakai baju warna apa?"


"Tak pasti la tadi. Mungkin hitam atau putih. Kalau tak pun kelabu."


"Baiklah. Dia ada bawa kad kredit atau kad ATM bersama?"


"Kad ATM memang selalu ada dalam dompet dia, tapi kad kerdit tak pasti pula."


Polis tersebut menggeleng-gelengkan kepala. "Isteri encik keluar dengan kereta persendirian?"


"Ya tuan, dia keluar menggunakan kereta saya, Produa Myvi. Kereta saya tu berwarna silver, berusia hampir 4 tahun 12 Disember nanti. Bumper depan kereta sebelah kiri ada kesan calar sikit. Bahagian dalam kereta saya guna wangian Teddy Dream dari Lovely Lace."

"Okey, kalau macam tu kita cari kereta encik dahulu sebelum mencari isteri encik," kata polis menamatkan sesi soal siasat.





Pengajaran : Adakah ada ketikanya metarial lebih mudah kita terangkan ciri-cirinya secara detail berbanding insan yang kita sayangi? Pulanglah kerumah dan kenalilah insan-insan yang dekat dengan anda. Mengenali untuk menyayangi, bukan untuk mencari benci.


Dari Majalah Solusi keluaran Isu 38.

Apa Kabar Kitak?

Apa Kabar Kitak? The words you use make a difference. When someone greets you and asks how you are, do you respond with cheerful enthusiasm? Adakah kita mempunyai habit expressing kpd kwn2 kita how dreary or down,tak bersemangat nya kita? The way kita respond apabila seseorang bertanya “apa kabar kitak?, Nama Rita Nuan? Ni how ma? How are you? are can have an enormous impact on your life. For when you say something out loud about the way you feel, about the way your life is going, it suddenly becomes a part of your REALITY. You may or may not believe what others say about you. Yet you most certainly do believe, at a very deep level, the things you say about yourself. Apabila seseorang bertanya dgn kita “Apa Kabar Kitak?”, that person is giving you an opportunity to strengthen and bring to the forefront the positive aspects of your life. Even if you’re feeling a little down, just by SENYUM and saying that things are going great,or “Kmek ok”…. you begin to make that your reality. The way you think and talk about yourself will have an enormous influence on they way your life progresses. Take every opportunity to make that influence a positive, enthusiastic and supportive one.

Monday, April 02, 2012

Expressions....

Expressions

An expression of love can be beautiful and moving, yet an expression of love is not love itself.

Expressing your intentions, your goals, your hopes and dreams can be powerful and inspiring. Yet the expression alone is not enough.

The fulfillment of those intentions, or those hopes and dreams, requires commitment, sacrifice and persistent effort.

Love is more than saying “I love you.”

Accomplishment is more than saying “I’m going to.”

Caring is more than saying “I care.”

No matter how profound the expression, it must be backed up, and followed up, with real and effective action if it is to truly be meaningful.

The best way to make a statement is to make a difference. The best way to show your intention is by doing what you intend to do. If you really want to express your hopes, then work to make them a reality.

The most meaningful expressions are not what you say or how you appear. True expressions are in what you take the time and effort to do.