Complain,complain,complain.....

Semasa nak menukar tiket penerbangan di kaunter Mas di KL Central,saya melihat seorang pemuda memarahi ticketing stewardess mas.Dengan nada suara yang tinggi dia mengatakan pegawai itu "rude" dll.Saya kagumi stewardes itu krn masih mampu tersenyum.Tiba giliran saya, saya mengatakan padanya "Bad day hah ?I salute you cos u still can afford to smile".She replied"its ok,the man might have problems at home or some other problems n i am a bit unlucky,the things burst and exploded here".Lepas saya puji dan compliment dia,terus dia menjadi ceria semula dan pertukaran tiket saya menjadi amat mudah dan cepat,dan saya diberi pula tempat duduk di business class.Itulah keuntungan bila kita memuji seseorang dan menceriakan seseorang.Tak rugi kan?
Why should we always complain n complain n complain..it will brings us disfavour ie by complaining of past offences we open the door to new ones.

Kadang-kadang hidup kita/org sekeliling kita asyik nak complain saja dan mencari excuses saja.
Tengok ini
Kalau aku banyak duit....Aku boleh.....
Kalau aku tidak sakit......sure aku boleh menang tenis ari tu...
Kalau aku study lebih kuat....sure aku dapat 10A punya
dan list "kalau" ni memang panjang dan berbagai" Kalau"
Sometimes 'complains' and 'kalau' ni fills the lives of some peoples,
To them nothing is ever good enough
No meal is tasty enough
No goverment policy is fair enough
No boss is smart and fair enough
No benefits is good enough etc etc....

The problems with complaining is that it does no good.Yes i agree with you,a person has every right to disagree with personal opinions,pplicies and such but when overruled or overvoted then the person needs to be a bit of more gracious and less vocal.

Look at the subtle effects of complaining;
1.friendship dissolved
2.people actually pity at us kerana menunjukkan ketidakmatangan kita.
3.stressful life
4.blood pressure increase
5.family suffer disharmony
6.less concentration and less focus
7.you look ugly(dah lah tak hensem ,lagi tak hensem,perasan macho la tu!)
8. dan lain lain lagi .....
And once the cycle of complaining starts,our life get worse and worse....think about it.

By all means,change the things you can to make your surroundings a better place but when you cant do anything,keeps your complaints to yourself.WHINING is worthless and silence at the other hand can be golden.