FRIENDLY HOME ENVIRONMENT......
Kita selalu dengar"rumah ku syurga ku"
Kebahgian,kecerian dan kecemerlangan bermula di rumah....dan sebagainya.
so..how friendly is our home ...esp toward our kids...
A friendly home environment is one in which kids efforts are encouraged,recognised and praised.......where their mistakes,shortcomings,individual differences are tolerated........and where they are treated fairly with patience,understanding,kindness and consideration.
Our kids first world is the family.From us they learn ....what to value.....how to behave....and what to expect from life...
Often our kids pickup some of the strongest messages about our values and our behaviour when we are least aware they are paying attention.
So...kita kena tanya diri kita...How friendly is this first world we give to our kids?
Do we speak to them politely with common courtesy?
Do we accept them as they are rather than trying to make them be who we
want them to be?
We as a parent...want them to grow up with a positive outlook that will help them find their place in the world and enjoy the world has to offer but not forgeting the akhirat.May Allah bless us and our kids....amin
Kebahgian,kecerian dan kecemerlangan bermula di rumah....dan sebagainya.
so..how friendly is our home ...esp toward our kids...
A friendly home environment is one in which kids efforts are encouraged,recognised and praised.......where their mistakes,shortcomings,individual differences are tolerated........and where they are treated fairly with patience,understanding,kindness and consideration.
Our kids first world is the family.From us they learn ....what to value.....how to behave....and what to expect from life...
Often our kids pickup some of the strongest messages about our values and our behaviour when we are least aware they are paying attention.
So...kita kena tanya diri kita...How friendly is this first world we give to our kids?
Do we speak to them politely with common courtesy?
Do we accept them as they are rather than trying to make them be who we
want them to be?
We as a parent...want them to grow up with a positive outlook that will help them find their place in the world and enjoy the world has to offer but not forgeting the akhirat.May Allah bless us and our kids....amin
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