COMPARISON......

Semasa cuti panjang Tahun Baru Cina dan Awal Muharam,i spent bnyk masa dgn anak-anak,join dia org tengok tv (cerita katon pun tengok).Banyak sangat iklan pada sebuah rancangan sampai naik boring.....

Just watch those tv adverts...!!
If only we use 'such and such' product we too will look as 'secantik,setampan,sekurus dan sesolid'look as young'as elegant........AS WHOM?

Do you ever compare yourself with others?

When we are feeling low we often compare ourselves unfavourably with others......
Kita selalu membandingkan diri kita dgn org lain dgn konsep skala perbandingan of selfworth....
contohnya....
I'm not beatiful enough....
I'm not thin enough.....
I'm not good enough.....
I'm not solid enough....
How do we know if we are good/bad/happy/doing well/doing badly....?

No one else can be inside you...
no one else can experience your self satisfaction or lack of it....
ONLY U KNOW WHAT ITS FEEL LIKE TO BE YOU....SO ..MY FRIEND ,STOP COMPARING YOUR SELF WITH OTHERS(JUST LIKE IN TV ADVERTS).....IT WILL NEVER..NEVER.. DO YOU ANY GOOD BECOS IT WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOU FEELING NEGATIVE AND RASA RENDAH DIRI...

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