Jealous?

Do You Ever Feel Jealous?Pernah tak rasa cemburu dgn isteri atau suami anda?

Ada orang mengatakan jealous atau cemburu tandanya "SAYANG"...tapi cemburu yang macam mana?

No one likes being jealous.
You're afraid you might replaced or you might lose a relationship.

You feel insecure.

Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate and fear. .....Jealous people do not think clearly................They can even act a little insane.
Ada yang merasa rendah diri...dan menyalahkan diri sendiri.


What causes jealousy?

"Jealousy is the largest factor in breaking up marriages. Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them." - L. Ron Hubbard


How to Dissolve Jealousy

"Communication is the root of marital success from which a strong union can grow, and non-communication is the rock on which the ship will bash out her keel*." -- L. Ron Hubbard


If you are jealous, you need to communicate. You need to stop assuming the worst and start asking questions. Communicate your feelings so you can work out solutions.



Yang pentingnya...berbincang dgn isteri atau suami apa yang anda pendamkan di hati? Dengan bertanya dan berbincang anda akan merasa lapang di dada dan bebanan jealousy ini akan terurai.....

Tak perlulah lagi ,nak intip suami atau isteri,checking her/his mobile phone etc-etc

Comments

Anonymous said…
Thank you Dr Mokk kerana respond keatas email saya....
.sometimes men never tell the truth...asyik nak mengelak bila di tanya dan marah-marah.Ini yang menyebabkan perasaan jealous semakin menjadi,
tokasid said…
Mamat:

Ini isu yang sebenarnya komplikated.
Sudah naluri insan akan ada sifat cemburu. Cuma cemburu yang bagaimana yg agama izinkan dan cemburu bagaimana yg agama larangi.
kalau tak cemburu langsung pun tak boleh.

Satu lagi aku rasa utk kawal rasa cemburu perlu ada guidance agama supaya kita tidak terlalu berlebihan cemburu sehingga membuat perkara-perkara yang di larang.

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