Most people are actually a bit dishonest about honesty.Susah nak jujur...dan kita tak boleh tak jujur..... …….. By that I mean, most people will tell you they want to be told the truth,……… but stop and think about it for a second………… and you'll reason for yourself that it just isn't so. When a woman says, "Do you think this dress makes me look fat"………. ,atau " Ayang gemuk tak" atau "cantik tak rambut ayang ni" Do you really think she wants to hear the truth?.. ........ She's standing there in front of a mirror while she's asking you. . You can bet if she thought it made her look fat, you'd never get asked for your opinion. If you can't figure out that she wants to hear the words "Don't be ridiculous, you look gorgeous" , then your communication system isn't working . You sebenarnya tak FAHAM..ACTUALLY yang dimaksudkan adalah.. " I'm feeling a bit vulnerable, tell me I'm still attract...
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