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Apakah kesan jangkamasa panjang sesuatu "affair" itu (Long-term effects of an affair)

Aabila sudah berlaku sesuatu "affair " itu........"Tepuk dada tanya selera".....atau" tepuk dada tanya iman"................Only you can decide what to do in the aftermath of an affair,.........

...........and whatever you decide will not be easy. Bukan senang brader.....banyak yang harus diambil kira....hati orang yg kita lukai....hati anak-anak.....

Many affairs cause havoc in a relationship that is already dogged with problems.

Affairs do sometimes provoke far-reaching changes that eventually strengthen and enhance the relationship. ..............The cost can be very high, however.

An affair can also have destructive effects on your family. .

Children,.......... in-laws,........... friends,...................... may all find themselves caught up in events, and perhaps having to take sides. .

Permanent barriers can be created.

Walaubagaimana pun...selalunya.....an 'affair' does not always (selalunya lah) mean the end of your relationship atau hubungan rumahtangga anda.... With hard work, ........commitment ......and patience, ...................it may be possible to come through this crisis changed,..................... but also stronger dan hubungan rumahtangga anda lebih kukuh dan kuat..........

The key message is to understand why the affair happened,......... rather than running away from the reasons.

It is crucial dan amat penting sekali to gather some insights into what went wrong.