ni nak molah.....

SENANG JE.... SUSAH.......... SENANG JE .....to judge the mistakes of others SUSAH is......... to recognize our own mistakes SENANG JE....... is to talk without thinking..CAKAP LEPAS JE...MELASER SANA SINI... SUSAH......... is to refrain the tongue SENANG...... is to hurt someone who loves us....taking them for granted...tanpa menghargai mereka.... Susah....... is to heal the wound...walaupun luka sembuh...tapi parutnya masih...kan? Senang...... to forgive others....barang yang lepas jgn di kenang... susah....... is to ask for forgiveness senang........ is to set rules..... susah........... is to follow them.. senang je....... is to dream every night. susah........ is to fight for a dream... Senang....... is to show victory...bermegah...banggga Susah........... is to assume defeat with dignity...menerima kekalahan dgn hati yang terbuka.... Senang........... is to admire a full moon. Susah......... to see the other side...

Women : A wife was not at home for a whole night. So, the very next Morning, she tells her husband that she stayed at her girlfriend's Apartment over night. The husband calls 10 of her best girlfriend's and Only one of them confirm that. . . . . . . . . . Men : A husband was not at home for a whole night. So he tells his wife the Very next morning, that he stayed at his friend's apartment over night. So The wife calls 10 of his best friends: ........5 of them confirm that he stayed at Their apartments that night,............... and the other 5 are claiming that he still is There with them! ...

Farith and Farzana bermain bunga api.. Lepas beberapa hari berhari raya.....kita akan dengar berbagai -bagai cerita ..(the other side of hari raya)...ini case menganyam ketupat lah ni....esp di kalangan orang perempuan dan sebahagian dari kalangan lelaki....... Minah 1......"Kueh kat rumah si Bedah tu....bukan dia yang buat...dia beli kat Taka....tak sedaplah biskut dia....keras..." Minah2...."Rumah si Melah tu...langsir dia, tak tukarlah...langsir last year punya....gaji je besar..hubby dia pun org berpangkat..tapi kedekut nak tukar langsir...".(dah langsir lagi elok ,buat ape nak tukar..kat dapat jimat kos..simpan duit buat benda lain yang lebih penting dari langsir...) Minah3..... "eh..eh...ko nampak tak ari tu...di tangan si Peah tu.....besarnya gelang emas.....agak-agaknya..dia beli cash ke...atau...dia bayar 10 bulan..." (ini kes menyebuk...ikut suka dia lah..nak hutang ke..nak bayar cash ke...) minah4...

..... Setiap Rumah pasti akan menyediakan makanan berasaskan beras...samada berasaskan beras pulut atau beras biasa...seperti...Ketupat...Kelupis(gambar no.3).. ..ketupat palas......dan my favorit Lemang...... .....Kalau cicah dgn rendang daging atau rendang ayam.....memang .."sehingga menjilat jari..."

...Semalam borak kat warong mengenai the other side of hari raya and ramadan..... Kamri....... " I just dont understand women....Dia orang ni hendak semua yang baru...Langsir baru..Sofa Baru....Carpet Baru.....Dinding cat Baru......Semua dia orang hendak yang.....Aku rasa raya ni aku hendak "bini baru "......baru dia tau..........( cakap je tu)" Teruna......"Kalau pergi Bazaar Ramadan....lain kali kita bawa lori lagi bagus....semua kueh dan lauk hendak di beli......last-last masuk bakul sampah" Kasuadi........ "Sedih bulan puasa ni.....'adik"aku tak naik lah...mungkin sebab kenyang sangat kot....pujuk-pujuk pun tak naik......Yang aku frust sangat bila tinggal 5 minit lagi nak imsak baru dia nak naik dan bangun.....adduuuuh" Dill........." U !....I.. kalau tak makan dan minum siang hari boleh tahan....tapi...kalau tak main siang hari..tak tahan......lebih-lebih lagi kalau girlfen -girlfren i datang jumpa i......"....(tak boleh ...

Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice. Son: “I will choose my own bride!” Father: “But the girl is Bill Gates’s daughter.” Son: “Well, in that case…ok” Next: Father approaches Bill Gates. Father: “I have a husband for your daughter.” Bill Gates: “But my daughter is too young to marry!” Father: “But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank.” Bill Gates: “Ah, in that case…ok” Finally Father goes to see the president of the World Bank. Father: “I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president.” President: “But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!” Father: “But this young man is Bill Gates’s son-in-law.” President: “Ah, in that case…ok” This is how business is done!! Moral: Even If you have nothing, You can get Anything. But your attitude should be positive .

....... Bila kita melihat sesuatu.....lihatlah dgn mata hati.......

I feared being alone Until I learned to like Myself. I feared failure Until I realized that I only Fail when I don't try . I feared success Until I realized That I had to try In order to be happy With myself. I feared people's opinions Until I learned that People would have opinions About me anyway . I feared rejection Until I learned to Have faith in myself. I feared pain Until I learned that it's necessary For growth . I feared the truth Until I saw the Ugliness in lies. I feared life Until I experienced Its beauty . I feared death Until I realized that it's Not an end, but a beginning. I feared my destiny , Until I realized that I had the power to change My life . I feared hate Until I saw that it Was nothing more than Ignorance. I feared love Until it touched my heart, Making the darkness fade Into endless sunny days . I feared ridicule Until I learned how To laug...

ALZHEIMERS' EYE TEST Count every " F " in the following text: FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTI FIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF YEARS... (SEE BELOW) HOW MANY ? WRONG, THERE ARE 6 -- no joke. READ IT AGAIN ! Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F' s before you scroll down. The reasoning behind is further down. The brain cannot process "OF". Incredible or what? Go back and look again!! Anyone who counts all 6 "F's" on the first go is a genius.

Last sunday....kat Sarawak berjerebu dan temperature panas sangat......anak-anak mengeluh berpuasa.....Farith hanya terbaring dan keletihan berpuasa... Untuk menghiburkan hati budak -budak ....saya pun on kan vcd cerita HEART ...cerita remaja mengenai cinta......lama dah tak tengok cerita jiwang-jiwang macam ni......syook juga .....Along menangis...Mami nya pun menangis.......Farith siap gelakkan dia orang yang menangis.......Angah je cool....dia sedih je tapi tak menangis...... Cerita ini mengisahkan Rachel secretly loves Farel...her best friend since budak-budak lagi....When she found out that Farel is in love with Luna, Rachel menjadi cemburu dan jealous.....dan mencuba menjadi lebih feminin utk menarik perhatian Farel.....Melihat banyak pengorbanan cinta antara Luna dan Farel menyebabkan Rachel realized kedudukan nya.......sedihkan..... MORAL OF THE STORY....... 1. Menyintai tak bermakna memiliki...... 2.Cemburu membuat seseorang bertindak dgn bodoh...... 3.Org bercinta sanggup mel...

(farith....dalam berbagai action) Selamat Hari Jadi yang ke 8........ .....ayahanda , bonda dan juga kak long dan kak ngah mendoa semuga Farith sihat.....panjang usia ......dan berjaya dalam kehidupan nanti....... .

Hai orang-orang yang beriman,diwajibkan keatas kamu berpuasa sebagaimana diwajibkan atas orang-orang sebelum kamu agar kamu bertakwa"(albaqarah:183) Kita semuanya menanti Ramadhan dgn penuh kegembiraan serta mengharapkan agar dapat melaksanakan ibadah puasa dan ibadah-ibadah lain sepanjang ramadhan kali ini dgn lebih baik dan diterima Allah swt...... Bagaimana terdapat sikap-sikap NEGATIF masyarakat kita sepanjang bulan ramadan... 1.Orang kita tersalah anggap bahawa puasa sebagai adat saja.....orang lain puasa kita puasa.....dan menganggapnya bukan sebagai ibadah asas islam..... .....Faktor iman dan ketaqwaan bukan sebagai pendorong utk puasa..... 2.Puasa disebabkan malu kat orang....takut dgn boss....takut kat pak mentua dan sebagainya..... 3.Bulan puasa di habiskan dgn lepak bermain daun terup...main mahjong....dan banyak lagi perbuatan mungkar spt berdusta...mengumpat...menipu....cakap lucah....menghantar gambar lucah antara satu sama lain melalui bluetooth telipon.... .....akh...

Hari ini ada seorang kawan datang bertanyakan "pemandulan orang lelaki".... "U..,i dah ada anak lapan org dah....isteri i sakit-sakit ,selalu tak sihat...dan tak dapat nak makan pill perancang dan tak dapat nak BTL" dia mengadu...."Dont tell me to use condoms....i tak nak....tak best....is there any way to control daripada mengandung" dia bertanya lagi. sebelum sempat saya menjawab dia berkata..." dont ask me to abstinence....tak tahan...2 hari hari tak main ,dah pening kepala.... So...i suggest kat dia vesectomi......dan explain kat dia secara detail the procedure. "so ...nanti i tembak tanpa peluru lah.....ok juga tu...tak risau kalau termengandung...." Dia tersenyum riang......dan saya sempat berpesan..."jangan tembak org lain "

I know i am macho man......You macam mana?

Sambungan cerita kawan saya itu......pada hari saya berkesempatan bertanyakan hal anak dia. Dia memberitahu" i m very happy...it was a beautiful night.....i can see her beautiful and cheerful face.....she was so happy dapat spend masa dgn i".... Dgn bersemangat dia menceritakan lagi" anak i berceritakan everything...dari kisah hidup dia seharian hinggakan kisah kawan-kawannya......i really enjoyed mendengar dia bercerita" I can feel how my friend felt.....terkedu saya mendengar ceritanya.... Dari kisah kawan saya tu....i made a kesimpulan.... ........that we all need someone who is pleased to see us.....it makes us feel it is worthwhile...... Pengelaman saya .....i love it when i have to go away utk meeting atau menghadiri konferen utk dua atau tiga hari and then when i come back...my children all stand there like children do with their hand outstrecth with that lovely...."Abah beli apa utk saya"look on their faces.... ....atau bila mereka balik dari sekol...

Seorang kawan(ada 2 cawangan) menunjukkan sms yang di hantar anak perempuan....."pa..i miss you,Lama pa tak balik rumah....lama kita tak jumpa ,lama tak cit cat and sit down together.Kita boleh talk as a father and a daughter" Saya terkedu membaca sms dan terasa sebak membaca luahan anak kepada bapanya....I asked him."how do you feel bila baca sms tu"....My friend tu diam dan dari riak mukanya,i know dia merasa sedih dan penuh penyesalan kerana tak spend time dgn anak-anaknya. Dia sempat menasihatkan saya supaya banyak-banyak menghabiskan masa dgn anak-anak......nanti bila anak dah besar.....mereka mempunyai dunia mereka sendiri....and you will feel lonely...... . ..my friends.....Having someone who is pleased to see you is important becos it gives you someone who needs you......and this gives you a purpose...gives you a a reason for getting on with life.....

Beauty atau keindahan,kecantikan is connected to desire....... When i see something gorgeous...atau melihat sesuatu yang cantik.....kasut ke...kereta ke......baju ke.....i got the feeling to posses it....keinginan utk memilikinya nya ada.....afterall i am just a human being kan....! Bak kata Kasuadi....kalau tengok wanita cantik....teringin nak memilikinya dan menerokai nya.....tapi apa kan daya...! Dulu bila tengok siti nurhaliza ...siap berfantasi...kalaulah aku dapat siti...... Yes....you are just a human being......its normal..... Yes brader...beauty attracts.....the desire to posses is a natural response.......BUT DOES IT ALWAYS LEAD TO HAPPINESS.... .. .BRADER......WHAT IF YOU CANT HAVE THE DESIRED OBJECTS......OR YOU GET IT......TAPI KAN AFTER A WHILE THE THRILL HILANG...... Perkara ni macam Bau Perfumes Wangi je.....after 15 or 20 seconds....you cant smell it anymore...... SO BRADER..... LEARN TO APPRECIATE BEAUTY IN THE MOMENTS,WITHOUT HAVING TO POSSES IT.......AND YOU WILL ...

Selamat Menyambut Harijadi Kepada Ayahanda Hj Abu Samad bin Said........yang ke 67..... Semuga Allah melanjutkan Usia dan menganugerahkan Kesihatan yang baik kepada ayahanda.......amieen .....'apak....kamek semua sayang kitak'