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Already Do you feel the need to be needed? You already are needed, so make yourself useful and you’ll easily satisfy that need you feel. Do you desire pleasure and comfort? Then allow yourself to be pleased with where you are and comfortable about the person you have become. Do you desire to be somebody, to really make others stand up and take notice? You already are someone special, and if you will simply live out your own unique possibilities, others will indeed take notice of the value you can offer. Would you like to have a life filled with richness and fulfillment? Life already offers an unending supply of richness, and opportunities for fulfillment in every direction, if you will open yourself up to live them. What is already yours is worth much more than anything you could strive to take. Make the most of that value, and in doing so you’ll find everything you could ever desire.

Things you can and cannot change There are things that you can change, and there are things that you cannot change. Both have much value. The things you can change can enable you to create, to achieve, to express yourself, and to improve the world in which you live. The things you cannot change give you the opportunity to grow stronger, to develop real wisdom, patience, acceptance, flexibility and effectiveness. There is much you can learn from the things you cannot change. And there are countless ways to positively apply that learning toward the things you can change. The things you cannot change give you a base from which to work. The things you can change give you an ever-increasing world of possibilities. When you accept what you cannot change and find positive ways to deal with it, you lay the groundwork for success. When you understand what you can change and find positive ways to put that change to work, success and achievement are yours. You are fortunate to live in a world whe...

Accepting disagreement On a regular basis, you will likely disagree with others. Don’t let that disagreement control your life. There’s no need to become defensive when your opinions are challenged. Instead, let the challenges help you to further refine and clarify your own thinking. When you are confident of your own path in life, you will not be threatened by differing opinions. Instead of fighting against others who disagree, allow those differing perspectives to strengthen your own. There will always be those who think differently than you do. Learn to see that as a blessing, and learn to appreciate its value. True success is not a matter of forcing others to adopt your viewpoint. True success comes from making your life a full, complete and valuable expression of your own unique point of view. When you gratefully, peacefully, and lovingly accept disagreement, it loses its power to control your life. And you can transform it into something positive that will truly enhance your wor...

Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini Some of the most powerful and valuable things in life are the things that never get used up. Indeed, those things such as LOVE, INTEGRITY, TRUTH, COMPASSION and WISDOM become more plentiful the more they’re used. STRENGTH does not get used up when you use it. In fact, it grows. Giving your LOVE does not in any way diminish the LOVE you have. It makes your LOVE RICHER AND MORE MEANINGFUL. Sharing your WISDOM with another person does not take that WISDOM away from you. It actually deepens your WISDOM, and makes it even more PROFOUND. As each moment passes, make full, joyous and meaningful use of life’s goodness. When you do, you’ll be making even more

Some of the most powerful and valuable things in life are the things that never get used up. Indeed, those things such as LOVE, INTEGRITY, TRUTH, COMPASSION and WISDOM become more plentiful the more they’re used. STRENGTH does not get used up when you use it. In fact, it grows. Giving your LOVE does not in any way diminish the LOVE you have. It makes your LOVE RICHER AND MORE MEANINGFUL. Sharing your WISDOM with another person does not take that WISDOM away from you. It actually deepens your WISDOM, and makes it even more PROFOUND. As each moment passes, make full, joyous and meaningful use of life’s goodness. When you do, you’ll be making even more

Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini Make the best You won’t always get the best, yet you can always make the best from whatever you get. You won’t always get your way, yet you can always make your way forward no matter what. Even when the situation is not perfect, you can make the best of it. Even when the initial outcome is not ideal, you can make the best of it. Instead of wishing for what could have been, choose to effectively and successfully deal with what is. Instead of assigning blame, assign yourself the task of finding and implementing a positive way forward. You can choose where you’re headed, no matter where you’re coming from. Stop wasting energy fighting against what has already happened, and apply that energy toward a positive purpose. Focus your awareness and your efforts on the most positive, desirable outcome. Make the best of the situation where you find yourself by visualizing and following a path to whatever you truly desire. You deserve the best, and you deserve the...

terima email dari kawan..kita kongsi bersama...(tak terasa dada sebak,dan air mata mengalir)..alfatihah buat Emak ,di bulan ramadan ini mengamit perasaan rindu pd emak... Untuk tatapan dan renungan semua anak-anak….semuga ianya tidak berlaku kepada kita ya……….. "Mana Mak?' Jam 6.30 petang. Mak berdiri di depan pintu. Wajah Mak kelihatan resah. Mak tunggu adik bungsu balik dari sekolah agama. Ayah baru balik dari sawah. Ayah tanya Mak, “Along mana?’ Mak jawab, “Ada di dapur tolong siapkan makan.” Ayah tanya Mak lagi,” Angah mana?” Mak jawab, “Angah mandi, baru balik main bola.” Ayah tanya Mak, “Ateh mana?” Mak jawab, “Ateh, Kak Cik tengok tv dengan Alang di dalam?” Ayah tanya lagi, “Adik dah balik?” Mak jawab, “Belum. Patutnya dah balik. Basikal adik rosak kot. Kejap lagi kalau tak balik juga jom kita pergi cari Adik.” Mak jawab soalan ayah penuh yakin. Tiap-tiap hari ayah tanya soalan yang sama. Mak jawab penuh perhatian. Mak amb...

LOVE IT…. Love what you do and it will be great. Love the world and it will be beautiful. Love this day and it will bring fulfillment. Love yourself and you’ll grow stronger. Love others and they’ll blossom. Love learning and you’ll be wise. Love a challenge and you’ll be skilled. Love the moments and they’ll propel you forward. Love the truth and you’ll understand. Love to make a difference and you’ll be admired. Love to be alive and your life will be full. Love to work and your work will bring true value. Love to play and you’ll experience true enjoyment. If you’re going to do it, love it, and see how much better it makes you. No one achieves greatness by doing what they detest. If you’re going to be it, if you’re going to live it, love it. Think of how exhilarating love can be. Think of how love can motivate you and inspire you like nothing else can. Tap into that power with every passing moment. It’s your life. Love it and make it great.

Maafkan lah… The more grudges you carry, the heavier your burden becomes. Forgive, and let them go.maafkanlah..ya memang susah tapi amat berbaloi…ular yg menyusur akar tidak akan hilang bisa nya…kita tak kan hina bila memaafkan bahkan mulia disisiNya. When someone has wronged you,menipu kita,pasangan berselingkuhan,....yes it hurts. There is certainly no sense in using your own time and energy to prolong that hurt. Forgive,maafkanlah…, and you can begin to move away from the pain. Forgive,maafkanlah, and you can move forward with a much lighter load. Forgiveness,kemaafan.. does not mean that you allow others to take advantage of you,dan bukan bermakna kita kalah, bukan bermaknakita lemah…hanya org yg kuat saja yg dapat memaafkan….On the contrary, forgiveness gives you positive power no matter what others may have done.

Have the courage.... Have the courage to appear foolish, for the real fools are those who never attempt anything. Have the courage to make mistakes, for they can teach you like nothing else can. Have the courage to take action. For even though your actions carry the possibility of failure, if you never act then you are certain to fail. Have the courage to live each day fully, with enthusiasm and a generous spirit. Though there are many problems in this world, there are a whole lot more positive possibilities. Have the courage to do what is right instead of what is easiest or most convenient. It will earn you the respect of others and, even more importantly, the respect of yourself. Have the courage to see and accept things for what they are. That will put you in position to make a real difference. Have the courage to love, to speak your mind, to follow your curiosity and your passions. Have the courage to give of yourself, for the goodness you give will come back to you over and over ...

Seorang yg sangat istimewa… Jadikan hari ini satu keutamaan utk melakukan sesuatu yg istimewa kpd seorg yg istimewa, seorg yg selalu kita “take for granted”…seorg yg deserves perhatian dan sokongan sepenuh nya…diri anda sendiri Being good atau pampering atau memanjakan diri sendiri bukanlah sifat pentingkan diri sendiri atau selfish. Ianya bukan bermakna kita tidak mempedulikan org lain…rather ,it make you able to offer more value to the other people in your world bila kita take good care diri kita sendiri… Putting yourself down is of no benefit to anyone… My sahabat yg budiman…BE POSITIVE WITH YOURSELF…. BE KIND AND GENEROUS WITH YOURSELF…. When was last time you did something nice for yourself? YOU DESERVE SOME SPECIAL ATTENTION….BE GOOD TO YOURSELF AND THAT GOODNESS WILL OVERFLOW INTO THE WORLD AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.

BATU KECIL Seorang pekerja pada projek bangunan memanjat ke atas tembok yang sangat tinggi. Pada suatu saat ia harus menyampaikan pesan penting kepadakawan kerjanya yang ada di bawahnya. Pekerja itu berteriak-teriak,tetapi temannya tidak mendengarnya kerana suara bising dari mesin-mesin dan orang-orang yang bekerja, sehingga usahanya sia-sia saja. Oleh kerana itu untuk menarik perhatian orang yang ada di bawahnya, ia mencuba melemparkan duit syiling di depan kawannya. kawannya berhenti bekerja, mengambil duit syiling itu lalu bekerja kembali. Pekerja itu mencuba lagi, tetapi usahanya yang kedua pun memperoleh hasil yang sama. Tiba-tiba ia mendapat idea. Ia mengambil batu kecil lalu melemparkannya ke arah orang itu. Batu itu tepat mengenai kepala temannya, dan karena merasa sakit, kawannya mendongak ke atas? Sekarang pekerja itu dapat menjatuhkan catatan yang berisi pesanannya. Cerita di atas hanya contoh perumpamaan untuk kita yang selalu lupa... Tuhan kadang-kadang menggunakan cubaan-...

Whatever you give away today, or think or say or do, will multiply about tenfold, and then return to you. Sahabatku....It may not come immediately nor from the obvious source, but the law applies unfailingly through some invisible force. Whatever you feel about another, be it love or hate or passion, will surely bounce right back at you in some clear or secret fashion. Sahabatku....If you speak about someone a word of praise or two, soon tens of other people will speak kind words to you. Our thoughts are products of the soul, not secrets of the brain, kind ones bring us happiness, petty ones untold pain. Giving works as surely as reflections in a mirror, if hate you send, hate you'll get back, but loving brings love nearer. Remember as you start this day and duty crowds your mind, that kindness comes so quickly back to those who first are kind. Let that thought and this one direct you through each day.. . The only things we ever keep, are the things we give away.

Embracing Imperfection "When I was a little girl, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage, and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that toast and eat every bite! When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burned toast.' Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work toda...

To Be Your Best Self The good you find in others, is in you too. The faults you find in others, are your faults as well. After all, to recognize something you must know it. The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well. The beauty you see around you, is your beauty. The world around you is a reflection, a mirror showing you the person you are. To change your world, you must change yourself. To blame and complain will only make matters worse. Whatever you care about, is your responsibility. What you see in others, shows you yourself. See the best in others, and you will be your best. Give to others, and you give to yourself. Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful. Admire creativity, and you will be creative. Love, and you will be loved. Seek to understand, and you will be understood. Listen, and your voice will be heard. Show your best face to the mirror, and you'll be happy with the face looking back at you.

Kamu bernasib baik sekiranya memiliki kekasih yang sejati, kawan yang setia, dan orang lain yang sentiasa berada disekeliling untuk menyokong setiap tindakan kamu. Tetapi kamu perlu ingat, dua orang yang paling penting dalam hidup kamu adalah ayah dan ibu. Kamu mesti kuat supaya orang lain tidak dapat mengganggu ketenangan fikiran kamu, jangan terlalu cepat untuk marah, jangan menjadi seorang yang penakut, dan jangan sesekali kamu leka dengan kebahagiaan yang kamu ada sekarang. Kamu perlu tahu sekiranya kamu mempunyai masalah yang besar, pasti ada orang lain yang mempunyai masalah lebih besar daripada kamu. Jangan sesekali berasa putus asa terhadap apa yang kamu lakukan. Terus mengejar terhadap apa yang kamu impikan selama ini. Belajarlah untuk berjimat, jangan terlalu boros. Pulangan untuk jangka masa panjang adalah lebih baik daripada kepuasan jangka pendek. Kamu jangan jadi seorang yang kaki ampu. Kamu perlu tegas dengan pendirian kamu sendiri. Buktikan juga bahawa kamu mempunyai ha...

(email dari seorang kawan..utk kita kongsi bersama..) Pesan Untuk Pendidikan Anak Sesungguhnya nikmat (yang diberikan) Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala tidak terhitung dan diantara nikmat-nikmat yang sangat agung dan mulia adalah nikmat anak. Allah Ta'ala berfirman: "Harta dan anak-anak adalah perhiasan kehidupan dunia." (Al-Kahfi: 46) Nikmat yang sangat agung ini adalah merupakan satu amanah dan tanggung jawab bagi kedua orang tua dan akan ditanya tentang nikmat tersebut pada hari Kiamat, Rasulullah Shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam bersabda: "Masing-masing kalian adalah pemimpin dan masing-masing kalian (akan) ditanya tentang kepemimpinan-nya: Seorang imam adalah pemimpin dan dia (akan) ditanya tentang kepemimpinannya, dan seorang laki-laki adalah pemimpin dalam keluarganya dan dia (akan) di tanya tentang kepemimpinannya." (Muttafaq 'Alaih). Allah Ta'ala berfirman, yang artinya: " Wahai orang-orang yang beriman jagalah diri kalian dan keluarg...

Mencari Ilmu Sayyidina Ali K.W: 1. Ilmu adalah sebaik-baik perbendaharaan dan yang paling indahnya. Ia ringan dibawa, namun besar manfaatnya. Di tengah-tengah orang banyak ia indah, sedangkan dalam kesendirian ia menghibur. 2. Pelajarilah ilmu karena sesungguhnya ia hiasan bagi orang kaya dan penolong bagi orang fakir. Aku tidaklah mengatakan, “Sesung­guhnya ia mencari dengan ilmu,” tetapi “ilmu menyeru kepada qand 'ah (kepuasan).” 3. Umur itu terlalu pendek untuk mempelajari segala hal yang baik untuk dipelajari. Akan tetapi, pelajarilah ilmu yang paling penting, kemudian yang penting, dan begitulah seterusnya secara berurutan. 4. Janganlah engkau memperlakukan secara umum orang yang telah memberimu pengetahuan, tetapi perlakukanlah dia seperti orang-­orang yang khusus. Dan ketahuilah bahwa Allah memiliki orang-­orang yang dititipi-Nya rahasia-rahasia tersembunyi dan melarang mereka menyebarkan rahasia-rahasia-Nya itu. Ingatlah ucapan se­orang laki-laki yang sale...