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Selamat Ari Gawai

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To all my Dayak's friends...Selamat Ari Gawai...Gayu Guru..Gerai Nyamai...lantang senang...uuuuuhhhhaaa. Enti Ngirup..anang Drive...

RESPECT...

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The way to be respected is to be respectful. The way to be heard is to listen What do you wish to experience? Give it to others, and you will surely find it appearing and growing stronger in your own life. To make a positive impression, find the qualities that are positive and valuable about every person you meet. Achievements built on kindness, respect, understanding and love will continue to grow in value and influence. Give, and as you do you'll be able to give more and more.

dear wife...

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Terima ini dari kawan..untuk bacaan bersama.. Memang banyak kebenarannya terkandung dalam surat tersebut..boleh di jadikan pengajaran kpd wanita yg bergelar isteri.. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Wife, Please forgive me for addressing you as such, for that is what I feel of you now. You cannot read what is on my mind, I will not allow you to. You will only learn of the contents up here through me. I will tell you what is bothering me if I want to talk about it. I will try to solve my problems MY way, if ever I reached to a dead end, perhaps I will talk to you. I expect you to just listen and digest. You may advice me when I ask you to. Sometimes I do not trust your womanly intuition. What is that anyway? Now, please do not start about that other woman. She means nothing to me. Well, she WILL be something if you keep on pestering me about her! Do not make me regret for putting my cards on the table. I am trying my best to be t...

pleasure...

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As we move along the path in life, in search of many things, we often make the mistake of seeking short term pleasure at the cost of long term joy. Many people confuse the two. Imagine kalau kita pergi makan di restoren yang best..dessert yang sedap…setiap malam sebulan..enjoykan..this is pleasure… …….But look at yourself in the mirror after that month and I don't think you will be so joyous. Imagine kalau kita mengamalkan sex rambang…kita akan rasa seronok ..enjoy…pleasure but short term…but kalau kena Sexual Transmitted Diseases…and Hiv…. Kan orang selalu cakap..”seronoknya beberapa saat je..tapi merananya lama”…. Imagine juga kalau kita ada affair,mempunyai kekasih gelap,…pleasure nya sekejap..bila berjumpa…ber rindu-rinduan…pleasurenya bila bertelipon dan bersms….pleesurenya bila bersembunyi utk memadu kasih…..tapi long term nya…ada hati yang terluka…anak-anak terabai….suami/isteri terabai…finance trganggu…produktivit kerja juga akan trganggu…. Pleasure generally requires n...

...muhasabah,sambil minum ...

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Berbagai cara untuk menyampaikan message.... Ini lah air minuman yang disediakan semasa mesyuarat di Hikmah..minuman ditaja oleh Baitul mal Sarawak...syukran...

kindness....

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There have been times when the kindness of another person has changed your life for the better. And it's easy to see that kindness has the power to reach far beyond itself. In the most difficult of moments, kindness heals and reassures. Kindness gives comfort, and hope where there was none before. Kindness can inspire confidence When you seek to make a difference, kindness is a great place to start. Just the simple desire to give it is all you really must have. So give kindness, freely and without hesitation Whether you get it back does not really even matter, for its true value is in the giving. Live with kindness, and you'll always see life's very best possibilities. For in kindness, is the heart of who you truly are.

..beri makan ikan...

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.....aween,zizi and Farith...memberi makan ikan daki-daki pada kaki mereka ...

..Demam Babi...or Swine flu

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...............ada demam jugak kah? Reproducing the WHO FAQ (pdf) here: What is swine influenza? Swine influenza, or “swine flu”, is a highly contagious acute respiratory disease of pigs, caused by one of several swine influenza A viruses. Morbidity tends to be high and mortality low (1-4%). The virus is spread among pigs by aerosols, direct and indirect contact, and asymptomatic carrier pigs. Outbreaks in pigs occur year round, with an increased incidence in the fall and winter in temperate zones. Many countries routinely vaccinate swine populations against swine influenza. Swine influenza viruses are most commonly of the H1N1 subtype, but other subtypes are also circulating in pigs (e.g., H1N2, H3N1, H3N2). Pigs can also be infected with avian influenza viruses and human seasonal influenza viruses as well as swine influenza viruses. The H3N2 swine virus was thought to have been originally introduced into pigs byhumans. Sometimes pigs can be infected with more than one virus type at ...

..gaya bahasa..famous lines...

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Soalan nya ...can be anything? ha ha Bila orang buka mulut….Famous Lines & Lies Language,bahasa dan cara seseorang itu bercakap …..can be revealing when people don't intend for it to be. Let's look at some opening lines, they betray the speaker almost immediately. "Kita org hanya kawan je” …sememangnya ngak begitu sih…tak kan kawan je kot kalau dah tak boleh berenggang dgn henfon… “Sumpah Yang..abang tak buat lagi “..kalau dah terdesak bersumpah pun berani…kalau dia ada peluang..more likely will do it again. “Trust me ... " – Ini permulaan seseorang itu nak berbohong… You can bet that whatever the person will say following those two words cannot be trusted. "I am not a racist but,I am not against Malays or against Iban or Chinese.. " - You can be certain that what the speaker say next will be racist,Dial ah seorang hipokrit yg paling rasis….. "I hear what you are saying . .. " - The speaker is not hearing what you have s...

..life....

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tasik kota samarahan.... Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many friends you have. Or how many people call you. Or how accepted or unaccepted you are. Not about if you have plans this weekend. Or if you're alone. It isn't about who your family is or how much money they have. Or what kind of car you drive. Or where you're sent to school. It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to. It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, brown, or green. Or if your skin is too light or too dark. But life is about who you love and who you hurt It's about who. you make happy or unhappy purposefully. It's about keeping or betraying trust. It's about friendship, used as sanctity, or as a weapon. It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. ...

..buat math...in English..

Buat Math in english...teach i Sarawak Malay dialect...they answer in Iban.... ....so kita belajar multi language....Malaysia Boleh... 4 x Ur birth date + 13 x 25 - 200 + month u r born x 2 - 40 x 50 + last 2 digit of year u born - 10500 = ?? (do it, its really interesting)

....teman tapi mesra...

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Emotional Affair? alasan dari kawan-kawan... Mr K.." we are just a good friend..teman tapi mesra..and i swear kita orang tak ada lebih-lebih..atau melepasi batas...just a simple kiss tu ada" Mr J..."kita kawan "mesra"..ringan-ringan je..make love tak ade lagi..tapi percakapan,sms,email adalah...may be u can call it "on line sex" or "Sex di alam Maya" itu sebahagian daripada contoh-contoh emotional affair.. The signs of an emotional affair may be more subtle than those of a sexual affair, but they're just as unmistakable. "An emotional affair happens when you put the bulk of your emotions into the hands of somebody outside of your marriage," explains psychotherapist M. Gary Neuman, Your innermost thoughts, funny jokes, and interesting personal experiences are saved up and spilled to the other woman /guy instead of your spouse. And even if you never so much as touch her/him, this emotional attachment has just as much potential ...

..pengajaran...

...kita boleh belajar dari mereka ini.......banyak pengajarannya...

..dugaan...

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Dr Yusuf Al-Qaradawi, dalam kitabnya Al-Iman wal Hayah menyatakan : Tidak mungkin manusia dapat menghindarkan diri daripada pelbagai kesulitan, begitulah kenyataan hidup, .... ramai yang bersua dengan kegagalan, .... ditinggalkan kekasih, ..... penyakit menyerang tubuh, ......kehilangan harta benda dan seterusnya. Kemudian beliau mengambil hadis Rasulullah bermaksud: Perumpamaan orang beriman yang ditimpa ujian bagai besi yang dimasukkan ke dalam api, lalu hilang karat dan tinggal yang baiknya saja. Ulama ada mengatakan.... Setiap kali aku ditimpa ujian duniawi, terbayang olehku tiga kurniaan Tuhan. Yang pertama, cubaan itu tidak menjejaskan agamaku. Yang kedua, aku tidak ditimpa bahaya yang lebih besar dari itu. yang ketiga, aku mendapat pahala dari Allah SWT kerananya.”

..Ulangtahun...

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manje...ye... bersama anak-anak kegembiraan..keriangan... Dalam tempoh 16 tahun..bukan satu perjalanan yang mudah dan senang... Banyak onak..duri...ranjau...yang kita sama lalui....ada yang membuat kita ungiketawa...tersenyum...sedih...menangis...pilu...syahdu.... ..but kita berjaya melalui.... Ya...memang lidah kadang selalu tergigit..tapi kita sembunyikan kesakitan gigitan itu .... ya...bumi mana yang tak di timpa hujan.... ya...laut mana yang tak bergelora.....itu memang adat rumahtangga....kita harungi bersama.... gigitan..hujan..gelombang...onak...duri...mengajar kita tentang kehidupan sayang....selamat ulangtahun perkahwinan yg ke 16....

..sedap nya...

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....makan...makan....nanti makan ubat anti cholesterol

Ratu Cantik Abah

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Selamat Hari Lahir Maizatul Azween yang ke 15.... Abah teringat masa awin masuk Tahun 1 dulu..semasa mengisi Report Book Awin... Pada ruangan Cita-cita Awin tulis ..Ingin menjadi Ratu Cantik...sebenar untuk pengetahuan Awin...Awin sentiasa menjadi Ratu dalam hati Abah... Selamat Hari Lahir dan semuga Awin berjaya dalam PMR tahun ni..dan sentiasa dalam Rahmat Allah..amin Abah loves Along......

Doa...

Dalam kehidupan kita seharian..adakah kita terfikir suatu hari nanti ada tak orang akan mendoakan kesjerahteraan ketika kita terlantar sakit...atau pun ada tak org akan mengingati kita (mengenai kebaikan yg kita lakukan )semasa kita tiada lagi di dunia ini... Orang tua -tua cakap..kalau kita buat baik..merendah diri..sentiasa menolong orang susah...tidak menzalimi org..dan sentiasa bersikap adil..insyaAllah kita akan diingati dan di doakan... Kalau kita jadi Boss...jangan bersikap tidak adil ,pilih kasih dgn anak buah kita..dan jgn menzalimi orang...Doa org yang dizalimi..makbul dan mujarab. Kita renungi kisah ini (tazkirah ,kiriman kwn) ...ambil pengajaran nya bersama-sama....... Adakah yang akan mendoakan kita? www.iLuvislam. com oleh: syahiida editor: everjihad Seorang pengarah yang berjaya jatuh di kamar mandi dan akhirnya stroke. Sudah 7 malam dirawat di RS di ruang ICU. Di saat orang-orang terlelap dalam mimpi malam, dalam dunia roh seorang malaikat menghampiri si pengarah yang...

good relationship

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..................bandaraya kuching dari kpg di seberang.... Received sms this morning...kita kongsi bersama.. 5 things to make a good relationship 1. It's important to have a woman who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job. 2. It's important to have a woman who can make you laugh. 3. It's important to have a woman who you can trust and who doesn't lie to you. 4. It's important to have a woman who is good in bed and who likes to be with you. 5. It's very, very important that these four women don't know each other

..the need to judge...

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................"look...what have you done?...you MONKEY? " • Your ability to make judgments can serve you well. It can also cause a lot of needless trouble, anxiety, and pain. • Stop making judgments about the things that don't matter. And you'll free yourself to focus on the things that do. • Imagine a world in which there was nothing to annoy you. When you let go of the constant need to judge, the annoyances drop quickly away. • Many times judgment can be replaced with understanding. And by truly seeking to understand others, you will yourself be far better understo od. • Certainly there are times when a judgment is necessary and appropriate. Your judgment at such times can be much more powerful and effective when you haven't wasted it on things that don't matter. • Use your judgment wisely. And just as wisely, give it a rest.