pleasure...

As we move along the path in life, in search of many things, we often make the mistake of seeking short term pleasure at the cost of long term joy. Many people confuse the two.

Imagine kalau kita pergi makan di restoren yang best..dessert yang sedap…setiap malam sebulan..enjoykan..this is pleasure…
…….But look at yourself in the mirror after that month and I don't think you will be so joyous.

Imagine kalau kita mengamalkan sex rambang…kita akan rasa seronok ..enjoy…pleasure but short term…but kalau kena Sexual Transmitted Diseases…and Hiv….
Kan orang selalu cakap..”seronoknya beberapa saat je..tapi merananya lama”….

Imagine juga kalau kita ada affair,mempunyai kekasih gelap,…pleasure nya sekejap..bila berjumpa…ber rindu-rinduan…pleasurenya bila bertelipon dan bersms….pleesurenya bila bersembunyi utk memadu kasih…..tapi long term nya…ada hati yang terluka…anak-anak terabai….suami/isteri terabai…finance trganggu…produktivit kerja juga akan trganggu….

Pleasure generally requires no effort…..and …sometimes ianya datang tanpa di duga…dan tanpa diminta....

Joy on the other hand, has an aspect of pleasure, but its core existence is connected to working hard and succeeding at something.

Pleasure bukan lah dilarang…banyak cara untuk mendapatkan pleasure…nilaikannya dan fikirkan baik buruknya….…
Pleasure is not something negative at all….. It is a gift we have been given..

We just have to learn moderation and to appreciate true vs. passing values….akhir kata bak kata Nabil “ lu fikirlah sendiri”

Bila dah berumur ni…dah tak fikir sangat “pleasure” ni….syukur apa yang ada..