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PERKARA YANG TAK MEMBATALKAN PUASA DALAM BIDANG PERUBATAN 1) Semua jenis suntikan (Intravenous atau Intramuscular) kecuali Parenteral Nutrition (Fluid Therapy) 2) Tablet NITROGLYCERIN dan yang seumpaman dengannya yang diletakkan di bawah lidah (sublingual). Biasanya digunakan oleh pesakit jantung. 3) Semua bentuk rawatan yang melibatkan kemasukan benda atau ubat ke dalam faraj seperti VAGINAL SUPPOSITORY, PENCUCIAN (DOUSH), VAGINASCOPE atau tangan doktor yang memeriksa pesakit (VAGINAL EXAMINATION). 4) Semua bentuk tiub atau bahan yang dimasukkan melalui saluran kencing seperti URETHROSCOPE, BARIUM, PENCUCI URETHRA. 5) TAMPAL GIGI atau CUCI GIGI selagi mana ianya tidak ditelan. 6) PENDERMAAN DARAH atau MENERIMA DARAH. 7) BANTUAN OKSIGEN atau GAS PELALI (ANAESTHETIC GASES). 8) SEMUA JENIS KRIM ATAU MINYAK YANG DISAPU PADA KULIT walaupun dibekalkan dengan bahan kimia yang menyerap ke dalam kulit. 9) AMBIL DARAH untuk ujian makmal. 10...

Have you ever wondered why it is difficult to concentrate in your prayer? Or why your faith throughout the year is not on a high like it is during Ramadan or through Hajj? Maybe it is because we usually jump straight from a phone conversation into Takbir or because we just go with the flow in Ramadan and are influenced by the environment around us and not our own ‘real’ feelings. A lot of us usually live life and have our faith dependent on an upcoming major event i.e. “I’m going to start reading a page of Quran a day as soon as Ramadan starts; I’m going to start praying Qiyam every night when I come back from hajj; or, I’m going to stop smoking when my child is born.” And because of this way of thinking we usually end up with an anticlimax; we don’t end up giving up smoking, we don’t end up praying Qiyam and we start reading Quran but then get back to our normal old self after a few days or weeks. This is because these ‘statements’ or ‘feelings’ are based on impulse and not a...

At 3am…..In the stillness…in the Tafakur n Tahajud… Silence is the space in which sound can exist. Stillness is the space in which life comes to life. If you listen only to the sounds, only to the noise, there is much that you will miss. Listen also to the silence, to the space between the sounds. Listen to the silence, and what you’ll hear are the limitless possibilities. Experience the stillness, and you’ll discover how it feels to be fully aware. It’s great when life is filled with sounds, colors, activity and excitement. It’s even better when all that activity of living is grounded in real and meaningful purpose. In silence you come to hear that meaning. In stillness you come to know that purpose. Make a place in each day for the peaceful stillness. For it is the place where all that is possible takes shape.

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May be Not…. Do you ever consider that you might be wrong? Do you ever question your assumptions? What’s so great about being right, anyway? And what’s so terrible about being wrong? There are many valuable ideas and approaches that are not yours. Unfortunately, to perpetuate your own sense of “being right", you sometimes ignore the perfectly useful perspectives of others. Always “being right” will earn you little more than resentment. It creates barriers and inhibits communication. Discard the attachment to being right and you’ll open up enormous new vistas in your thinking and perception. What if you actually listened to people without trying to figure out how to prove them wrong? Think of what you could learn, of how you could benefit from the experience and perspective of others. Paradoxically, you’ll come closer to the truth when you let go of the need to be right. Faced with the choice between changing one’s mind and proving there is no need to do so,...

Joining the crowd membotakkan kepala sempena kempen mengutip derma "help kids to fight cancer"di Spring on the 22nd May....

Semalam beberapa orang student dari universiti kat Kota Samarahan menjemput saya utk buat demonstrasi "self examination of the Breast" dalam kempen awareness of Breast Cancer. Malang nya tak dpt memenuhi hajat mereka kerana ada program pada hari yg ditetapkan. Anyway..saya buat sedikit tulisan mengenai nya di sini... Breast Self Exam Tool Monthly breast self-exams are an option for all women beginning by age 20. Women who regularly examine their breasts become more aware of how their breasts normally feel. They are more likely to notice changes -- including masses or lumps -- that could be early signs of cancer. It's best to check about a week after your period, when breasts are not swollen or tender. If you no longer have a period, examine yourself on the same day every month. If you see or feel a change in your breasts, see your doctor immediately. But remember, most of the time breast changes are not cancer. Test 1 Using a mirror, inspect you...

Seorang suami berjumpa polis untuk melaporkan kehilangan isterinya yang keluar seketika untuk membeli gula, namun tidak pulang-pulang. "Sudah berapa lama isteri encik keluar?" soal polis. "Saya tidak pasti pula. Pagi tadi atau tengah hari kot." "Dia pakai baju warna apa?" "Tak pasti la tadi. Mungkin hitam atau putih. Kalau tak pun kelabu." "Baiklah. Dia ada bawa kad kredit atau kad ATM bersama?" "Kad ATM memang selalu ada dalam dompet dia, tapi kad kerdit tak pasti pula." Polis tersebut menggeleng-gelengkan kepala. "Isteri encik keluar dengan kereta persendirian?" "Ya tuan, dia keluar menggunakan kereta saya, Produa Myvi. Kereta saya tu berwarna silver, berusia hampir 4 tahun 12 Disember nanti. Bumper depan kereta sebelah kiri ada kesan calar sikit. Bahagian dalam kereta saya guna wangian Teddy Dream dari Lovely Lace." "Okey, kalau macam tu kita cari kereta encik dahulu s...

Apa Kabar Kitak? The words you use make a difference. When someone greets you and asks how you are, do you respond with cheerful enthusiasm? Adakah kita mempunyai habit expressing kpd kwn2 kita how dreary or down,tak bersemangat nya kita? The way kita respond apabila seseorang bertanya “apa kabar kitak?, Nama Rita Nuan? Ni how ma? How are you? are can have an enormous impact on your life. For when you say something out loud about the way you feel, about the way your life is going, it suddenly becomes a part of your REALITY. You may or may not believe what others say about you. Yet you most certainly do believe, at a very deep level, the things you say about yourself. Apabila seseorang bertanya dgn kita “Apa Kabar Kitak?”, that person is giving you an opportunity to strengthen and bring to the forefront the positive aspects of your life. Even if you’re feeling a little down, just by SENYUM and saying that things are going great,or “Kmek ok”…. you begin to make tha...

Expressions An expression of love can be beautiful and moving, yet an expression of love is not love itself. Expressing your intentions, your goals, your hopes and dreams can be powerful and inspiring. Yet the expression alone is not enough. The fulfillment of those intentions, or those hopes and dreams, requires commitment, sacrifice and persistent effort. Love is more than saying “I love you.” Accomplishment is more than saying “I’m going to.” Caring is more than saying “I care.” No matter how profound the expression, it must be backed up, and followed up, with real and effective action if it is to truly be meaningful. The best way to make a statement is to make a difference. The best way to show your intention is by doing what you intend to do. If you really want to express your hopes, then work to make them a reality. The most meaningful expressions are not what you say or how you appear. True expressions are in what you take the time and effort to do.

Pesanan dari seorang ayah….buat anak-anak yg dikasihi…. Buat Azween,Zizi,Ayid…. GO FOR IT, SAYANG.... Dream big dreams. Expect the very best from life. Set your standards high. Reach for the stars. Success demands effort and sacrifice. Success demands your energy, your focus and your persistence. In the end, the low road is just as long and difficult as the high road.. So go ahead and take the high road. Make the journey worth the effort. Life exacts a price, and you will surely pay it. So you might as well pay happily and reap the rewards.

It takes strength to be polite to someone when that person has been rude to you. It takes strength to be truthful when a lie would be more convenient. It takes strength to build for the future. It takes strength to resist temptations and distractions. It takes strength to do what is right. It takes strength to make an effort when it would be easier to make up an excuse. It takes strength to do what must be done when the work is unpleasant and uncomfortable. It takes strength to persist in the face of obstacles, when it would be much easier to simply give up. It takes strength to do all these things. And all the while, these are the very things that build even more strength. Be truthful, do what you know is right, put forth effort when it is called for, persist, and the more you do so, the more easily you’ll be able to do so. Exercise your strength, and you’ll surely grow stronger, more capable, and successful in each endeavor.

Take Care Sayang… Take care when you choose what to say. For once your words are spoken, they cannot be recalled. Take care when you choose the thoughts to hold in your mind. For the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your thoughts. Take care when you choose what to do with your time. Time passes quickly no matter what you do, so your best option is to make the very most of it. Take care when living this day, this moment, this life with which you have been so richly blessed. Take care, enjoy, appreciate, and value it all. Take care, for there is so very much for which to live.

(petikan artikel ILUVISLAM.COM) Kita biasanya balik ke rumah selepas kesibukan kerja di pejabat dengan niat untuk berehat melepaskan penat jerih. Ada juga dikalangan kita yang berniat balik ke rumah sekejap untuk mengambil pakaian sukan dan kemudian terus ke gelanggang permainan bersama-sama dengan rakan-rakan sepejabat atau sepersatuan. Tidak kurang pula yang sampai di rumah terus mengerjakan solat 'Asar dan kemudian ke halaman rumah meneruskan kerja-kerja menanam pokok bunga kesayangan kita itu. Apabila sampai ke rumah, hanya anak-anak kita sahaja yang menyambut di pintu. Isteri kita yang "full-time-house-wife" tu, meneruskan pekerjaan biasanya seperti melipat kain, gosok baju atau menyapu halaman rumah petang-petang. Kita pun mencium anak-anak dan terus ke bilik tidur dan membuat kerja-kerja seperti di atas tadi. Tidak ada senerio drama tv seperti isteri menyambut dan menyediakan minuman untuk suaminya, sambil suaminya pula merebahkan badannya di sofa empuk "itali...

Sahabat-sahabat ku yg dikasihi…. With love, what was weak will grow strong. With love, what was impossible becomes real. Love can find the beauty and value in even the most desperate situation. Love will bring hope where nothing else can. Please my friends…Put no demands on love, and love will bring you much. Give love away, and it will be yours in greater and greater abundance. Though love cannot be explained, it can never be denied. When love is present, fears are calmed, wounds begin to heal, and joy is gloriously within reach. Love, not because there is a reason, but because there is the possibility. Love, and you will know what you cannot understand.

Happy New Year Now is the day to apply what we have learned from past experience, and to make the world an even brighter place. Now is the time to do something about not just the symptoms, but the fundamental causes of our difficulties. Now is the time for true and sustained commitment. The sparkling new era in front of us deserves more than just half-hearted new year’s resolutions. My Beloved Bros,Sisters,Friends…Let this truly be a day of great beginnings. Make the commitment to live, to give, to love, to be a positive force,. Make a real difference and make it a great new year.

Stimulation I recently saw(tv3), a brain researcher discussing early learning in children, and what steps parents could take to help their children become more intelligent. His most emphatic suggestion was: sensory stimulation. He even recommended exposing children to movement and music while they are still in the womb. Stimulation of the senses creates electrical activity in the brain, and this accelerates the formation of pathways between the brain cells. These pathways, called dendrites, are the basis for intelligence. The more, the better. We’re born with a fixed number of brain cells, but there’s no limit to the number of connecting pathways that can be created. I found this all very interesting, and it has an unmistakable ring of truth. Receiving a healthy variety of sensory stimulation is important, no matter what age.(esp at my age..late 4series) I know that I always feel more energized after listening to good music…, driving at the countryside,…. riding my motorbike, …..hik...

Kata-kata Nasihat Ibnu Qayyim : Di dalam hati manusia ada kekusutan dan tidak akan terurai kecuali menerima kehendak Allah swt. Di dalam hati manusia ada keganasan dan tidak akan hilang kecuali berjinak dengan dengan Allah swt Di dalam hati manusia ada kesedihan dan tidak akan hilang kecuali seronok mengenali Allah swt Di dalam hati manusia ada kegelisahan dan tidak akan tenang damai kecuali berlindung, bertemu dan berjumpa denganNya Di dalam hati manusia ada penyesalan dan tidak akan padam kecuali redha dengan suruhan dan laranganNya serta qadha dan qadarNya serta kesenantiasaan sabar sehingga menemuiNya Di dalam hati manusia ada hajat dan tidak akan terbendung kecuali kecintaan kepadaNya dan bermohon kepadaNya.

Selalu kita dengar keluhan … “ Dia tak respek aku sebagai ketua dia…” “ at least hormat lah aku sebagai suami….” “ antara kami kasih sayang sudah luntur …agak nya dia tak menyintai saya lagi….” Kita selalu expect sesuatu dari orang lain,tapi tanyalah diri kita sendiri….ada kah kita sendiri bersikap seperti yang kita kehendaki dari nya… Kalau anda ingin…. Kalau anda ingin DIHORMATI, hendaklah diri kita mempunyai perasaan MENGHORMATI orang lain…tak kiralah apa status nya… Kalau anda ingin DIFAHAMI, jadilah satu kebiasan MEMAHAMI keadaan,sifat,budaya org lain sebelum membuat judgement.. Kalau anda ingin DIHARGAI (appreciated),hendak sentiasa BERSYUKUR atas nikmat yang ada..(ever grateful)… Kalau anda ingin DICINTAI…belajarlah untuk MENCINTAI setiap masa dan apa jua keadaan…. Kalau anda ingin BELAJAR, ambil lah masa untuk MENGAJAR dan BERKONGSI ILMU…. Kalau anda ingin INGIN BERJAYA DALAM KERJAYA ANDA, hendaklah MEMBANTU ORANG LAIN UTK BERJAYA... Kalau anda ingin menjadi orang yang B...

Kindness continues Think of how good it feels when someone is kind to you. Make it your goal to pass that feeling along to others every chance you get. Give kindness and something amazing happens. Your own strength, confidence and joy will increase. Give kindness, and it keeps going. Give kindness, and it continues long past the original expression. Kindness inspires more kindness. A little bit of kindness can go a long, long way. But why stop with just a little? Offer great kindness, again and again, and you truly change the world. Add some kindness to your world today. And see the positive benefits as it continues to grow beyond you.