ni nak molah.....

Recieved this write up from my friend Bronk...interesting.. This is quite interesting. .... (To women) Please take time to ponder..... (To men) Just enjoy the story....... Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom.. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question was: What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man. And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end. He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could g...

Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “If somebody reproaches you and makes you feel ashamed of any of your defects, do not make him feel ashamed of any of his defects.” [Abu Daud] Usually, when somebody points out one of our shortcomings, we immediately become defensive and start finding faults with them. But the advice of our beloved Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam), is that we should listen quietly and evaluate what we are being told. If there is something we can improve about ourselves, it is only to our own ... See Moreadvantage to do so. If the criticism is unjustified, then we are rewarded for our patience and good behaviour in not retaliating. The angels will take care of defending our honour. Starting a counter attack opens the door for Shaytaan to come in and take over. Once Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq (radi Allahu anhu) was sitting with the Prophet (sal allahu alaihi wa sallam) when a man came and started to abuse Hazrat Abu Bakr. Hazrat Abu Bakr remained silen...

You can never tell what people are thinking and feeling unless they tell you, and usually they lie. You ask them, ‘whats wrong?’ and they say ‘nothing’. You accept this because it’s easier than digging for the truth. People smile when they want to cry, they laugh when they want to scream and shout. They pretend like nothing is wrong because they don’t want to face the truth. Things aren’t always rainbows and butterflies, sometimes you gotta scream and cry your anger and sadness to the world, because you can only hold it in for so long before something in you snaps. So when you want to cry, cry. When you want to scream, scream. Don’t hide behind fake smiles, it’s okay to not be alright.

Artikel oleh Sheikh Salman utk kita kongsi bersama..... Looking for Mistakes |Sheikh Salman al-Oadah| When it becomes a person’s habit to look for the mistakes of others, he becomes sensitized to them and attracts them to himself like a magnet. This is a tendency found in the school environment, even in kindergarten, and in society as a whole. It stems from an error in aim and intent and a tendency for a person to think he has the right to declare what is correct and what is mistaken and then go overboard in observing and keeping tabs on others, waiting to pounce on any error. This tendency in a person is often compounded by a false perception of the inherent rightness of what he is doing. Overlooking people’s mistakes is not a sign of stupidity or simple-mindedness. Nor does it mean a tacit approval of their mistakes. Someone who concurs with the mistakes of others is no more a person of discernment than one who actively seeks out their mistakes. A person of discretion is one who ...

Terima Artikel ini dari seorang kawan..mari kita kongsi bersama... Tak Ada Gading yang Tak Retak Penulis: Ummu Sa’id Muroja’ah: Ustadz Abu Mushlih Ari Wahyudi Setiap kita mempunyai kesalahan dan kekurangan. Manusia tidak bisa lari dengan menutup diri terhadap kekurangannya. Yang harus dilakukan adalah introspeksi dan menghisab diri sendiri untuk sebuah perbaikan. Umar bin Khaththab rahdiyallahu ‘anhu pernah berpesan, “Hisablah dirimu sebelum diri kamu sendiri dihisab, dan timbanglah amal perbuatanmu sebelum perbuatanmu ditimbang.” Berikut ini beberapa hal yang dapat membantu seseorang untuk introspeksi diri dan memperbaiki berbagai kekurangannya: * Mengakui kekurangan dirinya. Ibnu Hazm berkata, “Seandainya orang yang kurang itu mengetahui kekurangan dirinya, niscaya ia menjadi sempurna.” Beliau melanjutkan, “Manusia itu tidak luput dari kekurangan, dan orang yang berbahagia adalah orang yang sedikit aibnya.” (Al Akhlaq wa As Siyar) * Menyadari kekurangan yang ada pada diriny...

Masa utk review balik ,masa utk muhasabah diri... ...checklist 1.solat..wajib?,sunat? jemaah? masjid? 2.Puasa..wajib? sunat? 3.sedeqah,zakat... 4.Social life? 5.career? Duit? 6,Sexual life? 7.Anak-anak ? pendidikan anak-anak,(rohani?) 8.hubungan dgn manusia? 9.hubungan dgn Allah? dan banyak aspek lain yang perlu di muhasabah... .....banyak yang perlu aku buat dan baiki tahun ini..."ya Allah berikan aku kekuatan"

I've learned that .... when all else fails, sing, dance and laugh, then start anew. ...... the faith and belief from a child is more valuable than any luxury money can buy. ......you can be in a room full of hundreds of people and feel alone; but true happiness is found when you can be in a room alone and never feel lonely. Happy New Year...semuga kita semua sentiasa dalam RahmatNya.. ..

.......topeng............. BERCERMIN DIRI Tatkala kudatangi sebuah cermin Tampak sesosok yang sangat lama kukenal dan sangat sering kulihat Namun aneh , sesungguhnya aku belum mengenal siapa yang kulihat Tatkala kutatap wajah , hatiku bertanya . Apakah wajah ini yang kelak akan bercahaya bersinar indah di surga sana ? Ataukah wajah ini yang kelak akan hangus legam di neraka Jahannam Tatkala kutatap mata, nanar hatiku bertanya Mata inikah yang akan menatap penuh kelezatan dan kerinduan…. Menatap Allah , menatap Rasulullah , menatap kekasih-kekasih Allah kelak ? Ataukah mata ini yang terbeliak , melotot , menganga , terburai menatap Neraka Jahannam……….. Akankah mata penuh maksiat ini akan menyelamatkan ? Wahai mata , apa gerangan yang kau tatap selama ini ? Tatkala kutatap mulut , apakah mulut ini yang kelak akan mendesah penuh kerinduan .. Mengucap laa ilaaha ilallah saat malaikat maut datang menjemput ? Ataukah menjadi mulut menganga dengan lidah menjulur , dengan lengking jeritan pil...

Terima Email dari seorang kawan..kita kongsi bersama..semuga kita mendapat RahmatNya. Rassulullah SAW pernah bersabda : " setiap pagi sedekahkan al-fatihah kepada kedua ibu bapamu ( tak kira masih hidup @ telah tiada )".......... nescaya pintu rezekimu akan terbuka buat kamu... Berdasarkan Hadith Nabi SAW : " Tidak akan terputus rezeki seseorang ANAK selagi dia tidak meninggalkan doa kepada kedua orang tua nya dalam sehari" Huraian hadith: - jangan sesekali meninggalkan doa kepada kedua ibubapa (baik yang hidup mahupun yang sudah tiada ) - Allah akan memurahkan rezeki kepada mereka yang tidak putus2 berdoa kepada kedua ibu bapa (hidup atau mati) - Ingatlah bahawa keredhaan ibu bapa adalah keredhaan Allah SWT - Semasa berdoa, berdoalah dengan bersungguh2. ....tadah tangan dan Bayangkan wajah kedua orang tua kita , termasuk guru2 Kita dan mereka2 Yang banyak menolong kita (berdoa perlu benar2 bersungguh2) - Mereka yang lupa berdoa kepada kedua orang tua, akan disemp...

Black Testicles A male patient is lying in bed in the hospital, wearing an oxygen mask over his mouth and nose, still heavily sedated from a difficult four hour surgical procedure A young student nurse appears to give him a partial sponge bath. Nurse,' he mumbles, from behind the mask 'Are my testicles black?' Embarrassed, the young nurse replies 'I don't know,Sir. I'm only here to wash your upper body.' He struggles to ask again, 'Nurse, are my testicles black?' Concerned that he may elevate his vitals from worry about his testicles, she overcomes her embarrassment and sheepishly pulls back the covers. She raises his gown, holds his penis in one hand and his testicles in the other, lifting and moving them around and around gently. Then, she takes a close look and says, 'No sir, they aren't and I assure you, there's nothing wrong with them, Sir !!' The man pulls off his oxygen mask, smiles at her and says very slowly, 'T...

.....iklan yang menarik...apa yang anda fikirkan.?

A very meaningful article indeed, to share...... Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not." Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did. Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 10%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry daughter. Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelli...

Taib Leaves It To PBB To Decide Whether He Should Still Lead Party BETONG, Oct 5 (Bernama) -- Sarawak Chief Minister Tan Sri Abdul Taib Mahmud said he would leave it to Parti Pesaka Bumiputera Bersatu (PBB) to decide whether he should retain his post of president at the next party general assembly. Taib, 73, said as one who was loyal to the party, he could not make the decision himself as the party's struggle was his priority. "I have stated openly that I could step down (as PBB president) anytime, but the party asked me to wait first, so I've left it to the party to decide," he said when simultaneously opening the meetings of the PBB branches at the Datuk Amar Tan Sri Stephen Kalong Ningkan's Sports Hall, here, on Monday. Taib, who is also state Finance Minister and Planning and Resource Management Minister, said the Sarawak Barisan Nasional (BN) had always made leadership transformation and this was proven by the fielding of 25 per cent new faces as candidates i...

...bersiap nak jalan-jalan raya... .................bersalaman ,bermaafan.... .........semuanya bergembira...

Selamat Tinggal Ramadan...kami akan merindui Ramadan...InsyaAllah akan ketemu next Ramadhan, amin... Doa kami... “Ya Allah, kami bukanlah hambaMu yang pantas memasuki surga firdausMu, tidak juga kami mampu akan siksa api nerakaMu, berilah hambaMu ini ampunan, dan hapuskanlah dosa-dosa kami, sesungguhnya hanya Engkaulah Sang Maha Pengampun, Sang Maha Agung. Ya Allah, dosa-dosa kami seperti butiran pasir dipantai, anugrahilah kami ampunan wahai Yang Maha Agung, umur kami berkurang setiap hari sedangkan dosa-dosa kami terus bertambah adakah jalan upaya bagi kami. Ya Allah, hambaMu yang penuh maksiat ini bersimpuh menghadapMu mengakui dosa-dosanya dan memohon kepadaMu, ampunilah, karena hanya Engkaulah Sang Pemilik Ampunan, bila Engkau Campakkan kami, kepada siapa dan kemana kami mesti berharap selain dariMu”.

bersama dgn penerima bantuan sumbangan Baitulmal Sarawak dan Hikmah .. .....jelas terbayang kegembiraan di wajah saudara kita itu.. Pada hari Sabtu yg lepas 15 Ramadhan,bersama dgn ahli Hikmah yg lain telah pergi ke Kawasan Simunjan utk melawat Saudara Kita..di samping itu menyampaikan Sumbangan makanan dari Baitulmal dan Hikmah Sarawak,. Sedih dan terharu melihat keadaan saudara kita di sana..Ramai sangat yg sudah beralih Akidah. kita telah pergi di sebuah perkampungan Iban..dulunya ada 10 hingga 15 keluarga Islam tapi kini hanya tinggal satu keluarga lagi. Dia mengadu tidak di lawati dan tidak diambil perhatian oleh kerajaan..dan dia mengugut "kak baduk islam..erti nak berhenti jadi Islam"..Apabila mendengar ugutan rasa sebak..kerana kita gagal memantapkan Akidah mereka ini.. ..salah siapa?

..selepas menjalani pembedahan..patah neck of femur..bulan may yg lepas ..gambar kenangan bersama Allahyarham Nenekanda Hj Ahmad Buang pd hari Raya yg lepas Nenekanda Hj Ahmad Buang bin Hj Tahir di lahirkan pada tahun1903 dan kembali ke Rahmatullah pada 29 ogos bersamaan 8 ramadhan. Beliau adalah guru agama,bekas imam masjid Sebuyau, dan merupakan guru Tariqat Qadriah Naqsyanbandiah. Beliau mempunyai ramai pengikut di serata negeri kenyalang dan Sambas. Semasa muda nya beliau telah pergi ke Sambas dan Banjarmasin untuk menuntut ilmu agama.

Dari Abu Said r.a., katanya, Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda: "Tiada seorang hamba pun yang berpuasa sehari dengan niat fi-sabilillah ( yakni semata-mata menuju kepada ketaatan kepada Allah), melainkan Allah akan menjauhkan wajahnya - yakni dirinya (kerana puasanya tadi), sejauh perjalanan tujuh puluh tahun dari neraka." (Muttafaq 'alaih) 10 SENARAI SEMAK PERSIAPAN DAN PERLAKSANAAN PUASA 1) Niatkan rasa sukacita kita dalam hati akan kedatangan bulan suci Ramadhan, “Barang siapa yang dihatinya merasa gembira akan kedatangan bulan Ramadhan, maka Allah haramkan jasadnya untuk masuk neraka” – Al-hadith 2) Memohon ma’af kepada kedua orang tua, suami/isteri, anak, saudara dan para sahabat atau kerabat anda, dimana setiap hari anda berhubungan dengannya, lupakan kesalahan saudara Muslim anda yang pernah terjadi selama anda berhubungan 3) Bersihkan pakaian taqwamu dari hadas, najis mahupun penyakit hati (iri, dengki, hasad, hasut, tamak, haloba, sombong, mencela, dendam, berbohong) se...

Pelbagai permasalahan kita berpunca daripada empat perkara: * Kita hanya memandang dan menginginkan apa yang ada pada tangan orang lain. Kita tidak nampak,tidak sedar atau lupakan nikmat di dalam genggaman kita. Walhal, Allah telah berikan kepada kita. Oleh itu kita tidak rasakan ‘keseronokan’ atau terasa nikmat dengan pemberian itu. * Kita terlalu banyak ‘komplen’ dan komen (mengadu) dan mengeluh serta menyalahkan keadaan sehingga kepada permasalahan sekecil-kecilnya dalam kehidupan dunia ini. Tetapi, kita sering lupa kesusahan dan penderitaan sebenar yang bakal kita hadapi di akhirat kelak.Kita lupa bahawa kita akan di pertanggungjawapkan setiap apa yg kita lakukan di dunia ini... * Kita terlalu mengejar kemewahan, kemegahan dan glamor kehidupan sehingga melupakan tujuan hidup kita sebenarnya. Inilah sebenar ujian hidup yang kadang kala kita rasakan amat memeritkan untuk dihindari, pada hal kita tahu ganjarannya adalah syurga daripada Allah. * K...